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Why Not Separate Marriage and State? Cultural war can be avoided by getting gov't out of marriage.
National Review ^ | 03/29/2013 | John Fund

Posted on 03/29/2013 5:43:13 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

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1 posted on 03/29/2013 5:43:13 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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Really? How would eliminating state recognition of marriage address the problem of forced adoptions by homosexuals? How would it address the issue of homosexuals’ friends in the courts forcing private businesses to serve them?

These things have all happened in the absence of forced recognition of homosexual “marriage,” and there’s no reason to believe the situation will not continue to snowball.


2 posted on 03/29/2013 5:46:24 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Stand in the corner and scream with me!)
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To: SeekAndFind

Thus any and all tax laws related to marriage go away (for better or worse) and “Marriage” becomes a contract between 2:n people of any sex or relationship.

And thus, meaningless.

Game, set and match to the liberals — this is their endgame.


3 posted on 03/29/2013 5:47:32 AM PDT by freedumb2003 (Establishment Republicans don't like that totalitarian thing unless it is THEIR totalitarian thing!)
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To: SeekAndFind

No. Traditional marriage has always been encouraged for a good reason. Repubs are throwing in the towel because they are scared and are trying to rationalize why they are cowards.


4 posted on 03/29/2013 5:48:29 AM PDT by 3Fingas (Sons and Daughters of Freedom, Committee of Correspondence)
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To: SeekAndFind

Since the only duties of the federal government are to provide a common defense and deliver the mail, why not begin divorcing government from all areas in which it has encroached upon private liberty?

Government does all things poorly these days, yet it insists on giving more and more power to corrupt people with a lust for control. This is exactly the kind of government that the Founders warned against.


5 posted on 03/29/2013 5:51:49 AM PDT by txrefugee
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To: SeekAndFind

Would it be better to have homosexual marriage or no government-sanctioned marriage at all?


6 posted on 03/29/2013 5:52:05 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012
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To: SeekAndFind
Tax law, inheritance, child rearing, child custody, adoption, immigration -- all of these areas, and more, involve some confluence of government and marriage.

You can't just say "government won't be involved". It's not logical at all. The homosexual lobby is trying to change things -- and the Libertarian types who say "get government out of the marriage business" are playing right into the hands of the homosexual lobby and saying "You guys are great! Yes! Let's change things!"

Marriage as an institution isn't broke. Don't try to fix it.

7 posted on 03/29/2013 5:52:13 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (The ballot box is a sham. Nothing will change until after the war.)
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So we DECLARE DEFEAT and move on?

I mean if there wasn’t a push for gay marriage today, would anyone be thinking of outlawing marriage, which is what is being suggested here?

So I guess they set the agenda, and us conservatives are forced to buckle to it?


8 posted on 03/29/2013 5:58:37 AM PDT by BobL (Look up "CSCOPE" if you want to see something really scary)
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Precisely. Look at the headline: "Cultural war can be avoided"

Who the heck wants to avoid the cultural war?? Bring it on! We can't just give up -- we need to meet the challenge and preserve the things worth preserving. Throwing marriage away in an effort to get along well with the homosexuals is just not a sensible strategy.

9 posted on 03/29/2013 6:03:47 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (The ballot box is a sham. Nothing will change until after the war.)
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To: SeekAndFind
Because then government couldn't use marriage as a weapon against inconvenient citizens.
10 posted on 03/29/2013 6:07:37 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum ("Somebody has to be courageous enough to stand up to the bullies." --Dr. Ben Carson)
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No kidding. Their side must be worried about what they’re going to do for the next 20 years. I doubt they figured we’d BUCKLE that quickly. After all, we’ve been fairly tough on other issues, like gun control.

And for those tempted to take the bait because “married people and people with kids get all the benefits”, ask yourself how long this country will be around if we ended all incentives to have a family. We’re already getting killed demographically, even with the incentives. End the incentives, and that pretty much ends the country just about one generation from now.

...but at least you won’t be called homophobic, and that’s all that really matters. Right? Honestly?


11 posted on 03/29/2013 6:12:17 AM PDT by BobL (Look up "CSCOPE" if you want to see something really scary)
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To: SeekAndFind

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12 posted on 03/29/2013 6:12:19 AM PDT by mosesdapoet ("It's a sin to tell a lie", in telling others that , got me my nickname .Ex Chi" mechanic"ret)
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To: Tax-chick

For most of western civilization, the institution of marriage didn’t involve a government-issued marriage certificate. I have long maintained that marriage, as an institution of the church, is one in which the government does not belong. However, government IS involved in the marriage business and most likely always will be. For government to simply “get out of the marriage business” would involve re-writing several pages of state and federal law, which is not going to happen.


13 posted on 03/29/2013 6:12:22 AM PDT by eaglescout1998
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“Because then government couldn’t use marriage as a weapon against inconvenient citizens.”

Can you give us some examples, please?


14 posted on 03/29/2013 6:13:46 AM PDT by BobL (Look up "CSCOPE" if you want to see something really scary)
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“For government to simply “get out of the marriage business” would involve re-writing several pages of state and federal law...”

It would also, effectively, end our country as having kids is expensive enough, even with the help from the government. No incentives, no kids - that simple.

Yes, there will be a few kids...of course. Every few couples will have their one token kid, but the others will simply say “why bother”.


15 posted on 03/29/2013 6:15:45 AM PDT by BobL (Look up "CSCOPE" if you want to see something really scary)
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_penalty
16 posted on 03/29/2013 6:15:58 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum ("Somebody has to be courageous enough to stand up to the bullies." --Dr. Ben Carson)
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17 posted on 03/29/2013 6:17:23 AM PDT by tomkat
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“Because then government couldn’t use marriage as a weapon against inconvenient citizens.”

That’s why it will never happen, there are people on both sides who don’t want it to ever happen for completely different reasons. Conservatives recognize that a good state could promote a good culture by promoting marriage. Statists and homosexualists recognize that state recognized ‘gay marriage’ is just a way to punish and keep punishing those who will never buy into ‘gay marriage’ or whatever other impossibility the state decides to call marriage.

Freegards


18 posted on 03/29/2013 6:18:12 AM PDT by Ransomed
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

Minor issue...and only hits when both spouses make almost the same amount of money. For a one-earner household, it works the opposite way. We’ve benefited greatly by the incentive for my wife to stay home and raise our kids.

I’d rather work on fixing the penalty, then ending marriage - but maybe I’m just not with it.


19 posted on 03/29/2013 6:18:50 AM PDT by BobL (Look up "CSCOPE" if you want to see something really scary)
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Those things all occurred before gay marriage. As I see it civil unions wouldn’t further or restrain any of it. Unmarried gay couples and single gay parents have been adopting children for quite awhile.


20 posted on 03/29/2013 6:20:07 AM PDT by muir_redwoods (Don't fire until you see the blue of their helmets)
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