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A little Rant about the "Most Selfish Generation" (Vanity)
FreeRepublic ^ | 09/02/2003 | ME

Posted on 09/02/2003 6:17:04 AM PDT by tcostell

They had their childhood in the 50's and remembered it as a time of unambiguous innocence.

They had their adolescence in the 60's when they decided that their parents view of hard work and respect for family were "antiquated" ideas that no longer should apply in this age of social awareness. They preached free love while they spouted hate and burned the symbol of their country and called those who were risking their lives for them "baby killers". "Private property" became dirty words to them. Crime soared, many fathers were replaced by the government.

In the 70's they left college and got jobs, but the adolescence continued. They now had more money to buy stronger drugs, and indulge in more exotic means of gratification. Those that did marry gave up on the idea, and divorce rates climbed. They called it a journey to "find themselves" but they were already utterly devoted to their own egos. They even went so far as to name themselves the "me" generation. They replaced the minister with the psychologist, and the community with cultural awareness groups.

In the 80's the myth of socialism finally died, and with it also, their already threadbare pretense of caring about anyone but themselves. The ideas of family and community had been trampled under the feet of the proletariat. In the 80's it became about obtaining wealth, and the rules be damned. Excess was still the preferred flavor, but with age beginning to take it's toll it became external excesses rather than the sex and drugs of the last 2 decades. Conspicuous consumption was the new trend and exercise became the fashion in an attempt to hold back the tide of time.

In the 90's they elected their king, and filled the corridors of power with their number, but it turned out that the emperor's new robe was a stained blue dress. They told each other lies about the "new business cycle" and picked each others pockets. They put off till tomorrow everything they could so they could have one last moment of ego gratification. The band played as the new millennium rolled in. But then there came a day when everyone knew that the party was over. The markets stopped pretending everything would go on forever, and the World Trade Center came crashing down.

I'm a part of the generation that has followed along behind the baby boomers paying the bill. No one asked me if I wanted to, (in fact they still never ask me) they simply present the bill and await payment. I was bussed to public school as a child, turned down from ivy league colleges while my friends with worse performance were accepted in deference to affirmative action. I was taught to fear aids and other diseases when I was laid off in the 80's, and watched my savings and stock options turn to so much wallpaper in the 90's. Worst of all, I lost lifelong friends in the World Trade Center, and my wife still has nightmares about how close I came to being there myself. I've grown accustomed to the idea that although I've paid vast sums into social security, it won't be there for me. It was never "for me" anyway. And now that age is upon them they would like me to pay for their medical care as well. Even if it costs me everything I have. Even if it's long gone but still being paid for by my 3 year old daughter.

I know it will probably happen. The baby boomers are arguable the most short sighted and self interested generation that America has ever seen but they are in the majority so there is no-one to stop them. I'm even certain they will come up with some grand rationalization about why I should be thrilled to pay the bill for them one more time. But it won't really be for me... it never is.

In the meantime I'll care for my family with whatever is left. The schools have failed so my wife and I will teach our daughter ourselves in our own home if we have to. We'll make room for both my parents and my in-laws when they can't afford the property taxes needed to live alone anymore. We'll make our family the center of our universe because the family works better than all the government run pipe dreams that the die hards keep trying to sell. They can take everything I have but my self reliance.

We were landless peasants once, and may well be again before the "most spoiled generation" is through, but we'll survive it. And when they finally leave, we'll build the country again. Not as a collective "workers utopia", but as a place where no man is saddled with the burden of another, that he does not willingly take upon himself. Family is the best reason to shoulder a burden. Even community can be a good reason sometimes ...if the links are close enough. But it should be asked for not ordered. And the government can only order.

I don't ever need to be on the receiving end of government largess. I would just like to see the generation that precedes me to pay their own way for once. I'll carry my own water... and I think they should do the same.


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I little rant I wrote on the train this morning. I just thought some of you might be interested in how the last few years looks to someone in my age group. I know the generalizations contained in it don't apply to everyone in that group so I apologize to those Freepers who feel slighted. I'm pretty sure you can tell that I don't necessarily mean you.
1 posted on 09/02/2003 6:17:04 AM PDT by tcostell
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To: tcostell
As one who "had [his] childhood in the 50's and remember[s] it as a time of unambiguous innocence", I would like to make this comment on your massive unqualifed generalization.

Bite me.

2 posted on 09/02/2003 6:25:18 AM PDT by snopercod (The tradition of all the dead generations weighs like a nightmare on the brain of the living.)
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To: tcostell
I hear you brother. Thank God we will be better parents. Hopefully our chilren will be even better,we really have to teach them and hope they learn from our experience.
3 posted on 09/02/2003 6:25:28 AM PDT by mgist
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To: tcostell
Great rant. I'm sure that many of us from the Gen X group feel the same way. I'm always a little surprised how many of us are going back to our great-frandparents' values and I'll never stop grieving for those of us who follow in our parents' footsteps.
4 posted on 09/02/2003 6:26:32 AM PDT by Marie (Klingon at heart...)
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To: tcostell
Great post....and right on the $$$$$$$$$$!
5 posted on 09/02/2003 6:27:02 AM PDT by mrtysmm
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To: tcostell
Myth.
6 posted on 09/02/2003 6:28:19 AM PDT by Huck
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To: tcostell
Nice rant...all those who don't like it can "bite me". Denial is much more than just a river in Egypt.
7 posted on 09/02/2003 6:30:40 AM PDT by BureaucratusMaximus (if we're not going to act like a constitutional republic...lets be the best empire we can be...)
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To: tcostell
As a baby-boomer myself, I can only say that you have written well and cogently. The pendulum will swing back toward the sort of self-reliance you value (or, if it does not, things will get much worse).
8 posted on 09/02/2003 6:30:52 AM PDT by Stirner
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To: Marie
You got that right!
9 posted on 09/02/2003 6:31:16 AM PDT by NeoCaveman (Life is like a jar of jalapenos, what you do today can burn your @$$ tomorrow.)
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To: tcostell
bttp
10 posted on 09/02/2003 6:33:18 AM PDT by Richard Kimball
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To: tcostell
I don't know quite what to think about this. I put myself through college, got a decent job, supported myself, paid my taxes, voted in every election, paid my dues, supported every worthwhile charity to the best of my ability, am active in the community, took care of my parents as needed, married a fine man, am helping to raise my grand children..............selfish? I don't think so.

I can't stop what the federal government is doing as much as I would like to. It's not my fault. Bite me!

11 posted on 09/02/2003 6:36:15 AM PDT by Sunshine Sister
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To: tcostell
Good rant. You put to words many of my same thoughts. This is basically the generation that f'ed up everything. They gave us drugs, aids, unimaginable debt, abortion on demand, high crime & divorce rates, and are in the process of attempting to not only kick God out of all institutions, but make Him completely illegal.

And they're paying for it with our money and our childrens' money.

12 posted on 09/02/2003 6:37:52 AM PDT by VoiceOfBruck (shut up and peel me a grape)
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To: tcostell
Bump
13 posted on 09/02/2003 6:38:01 AM PDT by BureaucratusMaximus (if we're not going to act like a constitutional republic...lets be the best empire we can be...)
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To: tcostell
Well summarized, unfortunately the damage done may be irreversible. I share your view to the letter as do most others I've spoke to. Gen X is starting to wake up to the reality that their parents were the ones enjoying the party not the other way around.
14 posted on 09/02/2003 6:38:39 AM PDT by RockyMtnMan
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To: VoiceOfBruck
They gave us drugs, aids, unimaginable debt, abortion on demand, high crime & divorce rates, and are in the process of attempting to not only kick God out of all institutions, but make Him completely illegal.

Don't forget uncontrolled socialism, peaceniks, and environiks...remember, its all for the children.

15 posted on 09/02/2003 6:39:53 AM PDT by BureaucratusMaximus (if we're not going to act like a constitutional republic...lets be the best empire we can be...)
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To: snopercod
I'm Sorry you were offended. I certainly meant no personal slight, I was just expressing my general frustration at the overall trends.

Personally I think FR probably has a higher precentage than average of people who do not fall into this category in spite of being in that age group. But that aside, I think you probably have to admit that among the inteligencia of your generation all these things have been or are currently true.

But I do apologize all the same.

16 posted on 09/02/2003 6:40:35 AM PDT by tcostell
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To: tcostell
I am of that generation, but believe you me there are some of us that belong in your generation, because we have done everything you are trying to do. Some of us never participated in the spoiled, drugged, and sexed generation you describe. I am afraid there are plenty of those sick individuals in every generation. The whole purpose of life is to love and worship God. We will have victory.
17 posted on 09/02/2003 6:40:59 AM PDT by HoundsTooth_BP
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To: VoiceOfBruck
And they're paying for it with our money and our childrens' money.

And lets not even get started with social security/Medicare/Medicaid.

18 posted on 09/02/2003 6:41:29 AM PDT by BureaucratusMaximus (if we're not going to act like a constitutional republic...lets be the best empire we can be...)
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To: tcostell
Preach on, Gen X brother. If you don't mind, I'm gonna save this rant and pass it around to others; its EXACTLY how I feel about that "selfish generation". I know there are lots of baby boomer FReepers, and they aren't part of the problem. But the rest of their generation is. And we'll all pay the price soon enough.
19 posted on 09/02/2003 6:41:53 AM PDT by egarvue (Martin Sheen is not my president...)
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To: tcostell
. I'll carry my own water-?????????????....I guess you will have to when the BOOMERS aren't around for you to blame all your ills .

Don't be surprized though, when at sometime later you read a similar rant blaming YOU for all your children's ills!!!!!!!

....That's LIFE -damned if you do, damned if you don't.

20 posted on 09/02/2003 6:42:05 AM PDT by GrandMoM ("What is impossible with men is possible with GOD -Luke 18:27)
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