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ASK FATHER: Marriage problem, bad confession experience train wreck
WDTPRS ^ | April 29, 2014 | Fr. John Zuhlsdorf

Posted on 04/29/2014 2:33:52 AM PDT by NYer

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To: Elsie; verga

Is this REALLY infallible doctrine of the Church?? [Everyone not married in a church is in grave mortal sin.]

Not that it will satisfy, but the short answer is “No, unless..”

One would actually have to look deeper to know more. Perhaps read the thread or other matter to understand the Church’s position on marriage.


101 posted on 04/30/2014 11:59:28 AM PDT by D-fendr (Deus non alligatur sacramentis sed nos alligamur.)
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To: D-fendr; Elsie
One would actually have to look deeper to know more. Perhaps read the thread or other matter to understand the Church’s position on marriage.

Well, that's going to be the only options since no Catholic on this board will commit to answering straight up questions about their faith.

102 posted on 04/30/2014 12:14:25 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: metmom

Yes, one has to look deeper to know more.

It’s a chore, I know.


103 posted on 04/30/2014 12:16:52 PM PDT by D-fendr (Deus non alligatur sacramentis sed nos alligamur.)
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To: Elsie; D-fendr; Campion; NYer; steve86; annalex
Your question was answered in several posts on this thread.

Yes it cle No; it was NOT!

It was danced around.It was answered in no less than 9 posts: 16 and 19, by Campion, 25 by myself, 28,52, 58 by NYer, 72 by Steve86, 81 and 87, by Annalex.

Now it does require reading because it is a lot of information and it does require the understanding of "infallible" and the sacrament of marriage, but it has been answered.

104 posted on 04/30/2014 12:19:11 PM PDT by verga (Conservative, but leaning Libertarian.)
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To: metmom; Elsie; verga

You could illustrate how simple the question is:

Take Sue… she’s 30 years-old and not married in a church. Is she living in sin or not?

That’s a Yes or No question of course.


105 posted on 04/30/2014 12:53:49 PM PDT by D-fendr (Deus non alligatur sacramentis sed nos alligamur.)
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To: D-fendr
That’s a Yes or No question of course.

Actually you need more information:

1) Is She Catholic?

2)Is she a baptized Christian using the Trinitarian formula?

3)Is her husband Catholic?

4)Is he baptized using the Trinitarian formula?

5)If one of them is not Catholic did they receive a "dispensation from Form"?

106 posted on 04/30/2014 1:09:23 PM PDT by verga (Conservative, but leaning Libertarian.)
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To: verga

The question is for the non-Catholic questioners.

They may have their own questions and qualifications.

However that is not allowed under the rules. Yes or No only is allowed.


107 posted on 04/30/2014 1:15:27 PM PDT by D-fendr (Deus non alligatur sacramentis sed nos alligamur.)
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To: verga; D-fendr

And (if she is Catholic) ... was she married outside of the Catholic Church?


108 posted on 04/30/2014 1:30:41 PM PDT by NYer ("You are a puff of smoke that appears briefly and then disappears." James 4:14)
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To: NYer; verga

Well, yes, but if you’re non-Catholic, it seems it’s a simple Yes or No question.


109 posted on 04/30/2014 3:02:10 PM PDT by D-fendr (Deus non alligatur sacramentis sed nos alligamur.)
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To: metmom; Alex Murphy; bkaycee; blue-duncan; boatbums; caww; count-your-change; CynicalBear
God will forgive her

She came to the Catholic Church asking for absolution. What God will do I don't know, but if she asks the Church something she should be satisfied with the rules that exist in the Church.

She's legally married, she is not in a state of sin

One does not follow from the other. She is both legally married and in the state of sin.

show us where in the CCC it says that. Then why annulments?

See Canon 2383 and around it. Also read the scripture you already quoted.

Annulment is not divorce. Annulment is the recognition that an apparent marriage is not really marriage in the eye of God. If a marriage had been initiated properly, the spouses may divorce if a grave reason exists, but they will not obtain annulment.

110 posted on 04/30/2014 6:21:01 PM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: Elsie

Fr Z whom I quoted is correct expressing the Church doctrine, in my opinion. It is not, however, a Papal encyclical so whether it is technically infallible or not is a matter of opinion; I believe it to be without error and so I stated.


111 posted on 04/30/2014 6:25:13 PM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: Elsie

To which question? I see several.


112 posted on 04/30/2014 6:26:29 PM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: FourtySeven

I don’t think they are here to learn. Thank you.


113 posted on 04/30/2014 6:27:16 PM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: verga

yes/no


114 posted on 04/30/2014 6:33:26 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: D-fendr; verga
Take Sue… she’s 30 years-old and not married in a church.

She lives with 12 cars.

115 posted on 04/30/2014 6:34:41 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: D-fendr
However that is not allowed under the rules.

After hearing my responses

he said

I was in grave, mortal sin since I wasn’t married in a church

and refused to hear my confession but instead offered to pray for me.


Since no Catholic, so far, has said whether this 'priest' was poorly catechized; I can only assume, since no plain answer is possible, that the answer is maybe.

116 posted on 04/30/2014 6:37:47 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: annalex
Neither yes nor no; as her sins were

RETAINED!


117 posted on 04/30/2014 6:38:28 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

huh?


118 posted on 04/30/2014 6:42:20 PM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: annalex
Fr Z whom I quoted is correct expressing the Church doctrine, in my opinion.

This is pretty close to a yes; even if it is just your opinion.

I cannot, for the life of me, figure out WHY it takes Rome VOLUMES of extra paperwork to make a simple statement, using the information that was apparently given her priest.

BAM!

"Your mortal soul is in danger!" seems mighty simple to me.

I guess none of you Catholic posters on FR are priests.

They MUST get special training to be able to give an answer thru the screen so quickly.

119 posted on 04/30/2014 6:43:00 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: annalex

#66

The very first reply I had in this thread.

I pinged you to it.


120 posted on 04/30/2014 6:43:56 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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