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Racial preferences in the dating world
http://www.seacoastonline.com/ ^ | May 11, 2007 | Steve Penner

Posted on 05/11/2007 9:18:14 PM PDT by teldon30

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To: Polybius

There’s truth to that.


161 posted on 05/12/2007 9:38:09 AM PDT by Vision ("Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him." Jeremiah 17:7)
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To: John123
Which leads to the direct conclusion that most women don't know what they want and us poor men are more confused then ever...

Dude! I KNOW what wimin want...

162 posted on 05/12/2007 9:38:44 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: AlexW
Philippino women are freakin’ beautiful.

I see a trend now of American women going after UK men. Poor bastards.

163 posted on 05/12/2007 9:47:36 AM PDT by Vision ("Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him." Jeremiah 17:7)
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To: Vision
Philippino women are freakin’ beautiful.

Some are. Some are butt uggggggly.

Filipinos don't seem to select for superficial looks.

164 posted on 05/12/2007 9:55:20 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: Dead Dog
The only black guy I knew that would only date non-black women was trying to escape the "ATTITUDE". Had an attractive African American girl treated him as a human being she would have found herself a good man in him.

A (white) friend of mine tried having black girlfriends a couple of times. Not for long. "Big bucket of crazy" was a good description

165 posted on 05/12/2007 9:57:30 AM PDT by SauronOfMordor (<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymLJz3N8ayI">Open Season</a> rocks)
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To: Vision

“I see a trend now of American women going after UK men. Poor bastards.:

Good grief..American women have become more stupid then even
I imagined.
I see many Brits here in Bratislava and they are the pits.
Never be here on a weekend when groups of Brits come here for stag party weekends.
They parade through the old town laughing like Hyenas, destroy monuments, puke on the streets, you name it...
Many mature Brits that I know are pompous asses.

Like any nationality, there are some good ones that I know.


166 posted on 05/12/2007 10:00:16 AM PDT by AlexW (Reporting from Bratislava, Slovakia)
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To: null and void
I've found one I really like, we hang out a lot.

Unfortunately, she's gay. *sigh*

She's bi, or she wouldn't hang out with you. There's no such thing as a "lesbian". Keep at it, you might have found a gem.

167 posted on 05/12/2007 10:01:36 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ("Wise men don't need to debate; men who need to debate are not wise." -- Tao Te Ching)
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To: AlexW

I’m with you. Although I adore my (German/Scottish, blonde, blue-eyed, voluptuous, almost 6’ tall) wife, and have no desire for anyone else as long as she is alive, if I were to become a sudden widower (God forbid) it would be Japanese women or Latinas all the way. Both have a sweet, lovely appearance and demeanor wrapped around a core of solid steel. Our exchange daughter Yuki (17 now, back in Japan and in college) is sweet, softspoken, fashionable, and well-mannered to a fault, but woe betide any man who tries to put one over on her or mistreat one of her loved ones! Fiesty doesn’t even begin to describe it! She once told my wife that she only likes American boys, because they are “gentlemen”. (The guy lucky enough to capture her heart had better be — because if he isn’t, when she gets through with him, it’s my turn!) We’re hoping that she comes back to America to get married after college.

As for Latinas: no woman knows how to take care of a man than a Latin lady. And most of them are beautiful and dress like models to boot.

It’s all academic to me — as I said, I’m perfectly happy the way I am — but in my experience American women tend to be whiny golddiggers or ball-busting manhaters or spoiled Daddy’s Little Princesses or just plain nuts. (And most men in America are similarly screwed up.) It’s no wonder American men are seeking fresher fields abroad.


168 posted on 05/12/2007 10:07:34 AM PDT by B-Chan (Catholic. Monarchist. Texan. Any questions?)
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To: Mr. Jeeves
She's not bi, indeed, as a young un, she was astonished that some of the girls at The Savoy (Local lesbian hangout) would leave with guys. "You can do that???"

We're friends. We have similar tastes, politics, senses of humor, etc. I don't think I'd want to ruin that but having a 'relationship', nor do I think she'd go for it.

Still, you're right. I could do a LOT worse. (Come to think of it I have done a lot worse!)

169 posted on 05/12/2007 10:14:03 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: null and void

Trust me, she’s in denial. Maybe she had a bad experience with men once, and just needs you to lead her back to a more balanced perspective. Don’t give up. ;)


170 posted on 05/12/2007 10:19:08 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ("Wise men don't need to debate; men who need to debate are not wise." -- Tao Te Ching)
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To: mamelukesabre
You should be aware of an interesting article in Time magazine a few years ago, cover page had 100 photos that had been assessed for the 'most attractive' person, and the winner was the one that had been a morphed average of the other 99. Obviously, interracial reproduction produces a more average looking child, and odds may be better that your child may be more attractive if your mate isn't of the same background. But I'm still not going to be dating any Amazonian Indians any time soon.


171 posted on 05/12/2007 10:26:53 AM PDT by LibertarianInExile (If ‘He can win,’ is your first defense, obviously, that’s his one plus--not his conservatism.)
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To: Mr. Jeeves

Yeah. Parts of her life were way screwed up.

Welcome to the human race...


172 posted on 05/12/2007 10:27:15 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Why White Men Prefer Asian Women

The View From A Sushi Bar

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Some excellent observations.

My own experience in Asia has led me to understand dating dynamics in Asian cultures are very nearly what American dating dynamics were in the late 1800’s.

Back just after the industrial revolution. Men worked. Women were quite feminine, and not embarrassed to be desired for being so. Marriage meant a real commitment.

You could walk on the streets of major American cities at night, without risk of urban gang drive-by shootings or random violent psychos.

Liberalism has consciously torn down all those old values.

Women think they should be ashamed of being beautiful, and of being desired. Both sexes think marriage is an arrangement, which can simply be walked away from if it doesn’t work out — so many don’t really do what is necessary to make it work out.

Welfare has built a social structure which reinforces anti-family behaviors.

Asia is still early in the industrial curve.

They have not allowed their societies to be rotted by counter-productive social experimentation, so most still adhere strongly to the most important social tenets.

Especially marriage and family.

Asian women are far from submissive, but most are fundamentally monogamous and traditional about commitment.

Finally, all Asians (men and women) take care of themselves much more carefully than most westerners.

Morning exercise. Holistic medicines. Herbs. Diets rich in vegetables and steamed rice. Rich histories of culinary traditions.

American society has much positive. But family values seem to have become a shrinking outpost of political identity. Family values in Asia, mean mainstream tradition.

Family values in America has come to mean almost exclusively, religious values.

Not that religious values are unimportant, but they’re not what is most important about family. Family values are important as a stand-alone pillar of a civil society.

America really needs to get back to valuing honesty, integrity and committment.

American women could do well to drive that dynamic. Instead of so fiercely working to be so much like American men.

Women are the ones honestly, who most efficiently could change American society back to traditional values. Because men will do what they can get away with.

Women allow men, to get away with far too much. Giving away what should be earned. Not realizing American feminism is profoundly devaluing American femininity itself.

Instead, too many seem almost fanatically determined to tear down those values they should be standing for.

With alarming success.

So much so, that the family is now almost a vanishing American institution. Driving our need for millions of illegal immigrants to work — simply to make up for the millions of American babies which are never born. Lives ended instead, at the end of a scalpel, in an abortion clinic.

Almost a million, every year.

Probably if American women do not take it upon themselves to rebuild our nation’s families, nobody will.

Except immigrants.

As they reshape America yet again.


173 posted on 05/12/2007 10:30:38 AM PDT by Cringing Negativism Network (Mr. President: PARDON NACHO AND JOSE!)
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To: Zhang Fei

“Black women are equally unpopular because men of all races find them unattractive.”

Speak for yourself. I find a lot of black women very attractive, but I never have found a black woman who didn’t insist she wanted only to date and marry a black man. The odds of finding a black woman and white man together are far slimmer than the odds of finding a white woman and a black man, and that’s not entirely because of the biases of black and white men.


174 posted on 05/12/2007 10:31:30 AM PDT by LibertarianInExile (If ‘He can win,’ is your first defense, obviously, that’s his one plus--not his conservatism.)
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To: John123
us poor men are more confused then ever...

Not me.
175 posted on 05/12/2007 10:38:41 AM PDT by Vision ("Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him." Jeremiah 17:7)
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To: Cringing Negativism Network
As they reshape America yet again.

Thank God.

.

Good post!

176 posted on 05/12/2007 10:40:46 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: Vision
Not me.

LOL! Dude, you are sooooooo confused you don't even know you are confused...

or maybe not...

177 posted on 05/12/2007 10:42:36 AM PDT by null and void (The truth. It is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with great caution.)
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To: null and void
It’s funny. I’ve been reading this thread off and on this afternoon. While in the kitchen making some lunch I looked out the window and noticed a guy walking to his apartment, with what must be his new asian girlfriend.

Hot topic.

178 posted on 05/12/2007 10:43:13 AM PDT by Vision ("Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him." Jeremiah 17:7)
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To: B-Chan
“As for Latinas: no woman knows how to take care of a man than a Latin lady”

Yes, they are also quite nice. I had a girlfriend in Brazil and one in Barcelona.
They would be next to Asian women in the most desirable
category.

179 posted on 05/12/2007 10:51:55 AM PDT by AlexW (Reporting from Bratislava, Slovakia)
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To: Walkingfeather

Sorry, but I don’t think women are as obsessed with dingy size as you guys seem to think.


180 posted on 05/12/2007 10:55:21 AM PDT by altura
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