A Few of FR's Finest....Every Day....12-16-02 Christmas Is...FReeper Memories

Various Freepers | WVNan; JustAmy; Pippin; Diver Dave; Aquamarine; ST.LOUIE1

[Billie]

Christmas Is......

Christmas...
What is Christmas ...
Christmas is, Above All, Love ...
Christmas is Faith, Family, Friends ...
Christmas is Sharing, Giving Hugs, Laughing ...
Christmas is  Baking  Cookies,  Stringing  Popcorn ...
Christmas is Reviving Old Memories and Making New Ones ...

When I asked for help during the holidays with ideas and/or co-hosting a thread, many of you came through with offers of all kinds, for which we are very grateful.  We hope you have been enjoying the variety as much as Daisy, Dansy, Lori, and I have.  Today, some of our Finest Family share a few of their Christmas thoughts, memories, recipes, laughs..... ~ Billie

It's About Family by WVNan
This is a 'doctored' photo - Nan sent me a portrait
of Uncle John, to which I added hers.

She wrote back, "Thank you Billie. I love that picture.
Uncle will love it too. He loves for me to hug him.
Nobody else that I know of is allowed to hug him. ((((Hug))))"

Uncle John is one of those independent people that are indicative of the early settlers of West Virginia. He may have a grade school education, but he became a wealthy man simply by using his native ingenuity and his natural frugality. He probably never took a handout or even a hand-up from anyone in his life. In other words, he's proud.

During his recent stay in the hospital after a stroke he created something of a stir with his refusal of treatment. He got downright indignant when the nurse tried to bath him, making a fuss that could be heard over the phone when family called to check on him. He could be heard protesting, "Why are you giving me a bath? I don't need no d**m bath."

Happy to say that Uncle John is home and doing fair for someone who has had a stroke and is 93 years old. His unsinkable spirit is intact. ~ Nan

Family Traditions by JustAmy

Growing up during the 40’s and 50’s was a wonderful time for family get-togethers at Grandmother’s house. After my Grandmother died, family traditions changed. Each of my aunts started building her own family traditions.

For the past fifty-five years, my Mother’s house was the place for a new generation to build wonderful memories of the holidays at Grandma’s house.

With the passing of my Mother this year, there seems to be an empty place in our hearts and homes. A family gathering of three, my husband, my son and myself, hardly seems to be a base for a new holiday tradition.

Four months ago, I started helping out with the babysitting of a grand niece (she was three December 7th). My life has changed!! Instead of spending time in the electronic and home improvement stores, I now find myself in toy stores and the toddler section of the department stores.

After hosting our family Thanksgiving dinner, I will now plan an open house on Christmas day for nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews. My wish is for the youngest generation to have memories of spending time with family at Aunt Amy’s house. ~ Amy

A Christmas Memory by Marie Shelton (Pippin)

It was the first year I was in my new apartment, and I had just started out as a Liturgical Minister at the Catholic Church I attend in my town of Glen Burnie, Maryland. That year, 1996, was a year of transitions much like this year is. Our regular pastor was on a sabbatical, so we had another priest standing in for him. This was also the first year I can remember actually having a white Christmas!

I remember waking up on the morning of Dec. 24th to see the snow falling gently on everything and giving everything it touched a special, magical look. I was scheduled to read at the 4:00 Mass that evening at the Christmas Eve Mass. So I put on my boots and bundled up because it was really cold, if my memory serves me right and I walked to the church, which was within walking distance from my apartment. I got there early so I could familiarize myself with that evening’s readings. I enjoy reading the Word of God and I wanted to do the best I could with it.

FR. John, the priest who was celebrating the mass was there as was Anita, the liturgical coordinator/sacristan. We stood in the sacristy and talked and joked a little. Fr. John wanted to process up the aisle but there were so many people coming to church that evening that they were lined up at the side aisles and crowded at the back of our tiny church. Fr. John wanted to know if we could go around the church to the main doors. He wondered if Anita and I could stand a few moments of cold air as we had our coats off. I had piped up earlier that I was part Canadian, so Father John said since you are Canadian, I guess you can stand the cold!

We went out and around the church to the main doors. Fr. John was in a Christmas mood so he went up and knocked on the door; the usher by the door turned around, and Fr. John asked with tongue-in-cheek if we could come in!

We processed in and the Mass started. Anita had to be the altar server, as we had no one to serve. It was a beautiful service and the church was decorated up so wonderfully! It felt like Christmas, especially with the snow coming down. This to me was the most special time and everything went along so well. There were carols and religious hymns sung; the congregation and the choir blending their voices together sounded like angels singing to almighty GOD.

After Communion, Fr. John had a small tape player that he turned on and we listened to the “Ave Maria” being sung in Latin. It was beautiful and I had tears of joy running down my face. It was a glorious and magical Christmas Eve!

I hope everyone reading this has a safe and merry Christmas and a blessed New Year as well! ~ Pippin

A Memory of Christmases Past by DiverDave

There are several memorable Christmases to chose from and it was tough to pick just one. I scanned my memory from childhood to the present and I think I’ll share about Christmas 1965.

Mrs. DD (Linda) and I were married in June. Three short months later my ship, the USS PIEDMONT (AD-17) deployed for a 6 month cruise to the western Pacific (WESTPAC). We were to spend our first Christmas separated from one another.

Our ship’s crossing of the Pacific took 19 days and we pulled into Yokosuka, Japan and later to sailed to Subic Bay, Philipines and set up repair operations to ships serving in the Seventh Fleet. I was working in the Pipe Shop at the time as a 3rd Class Shipfitter P.

As the holiday season approached, one of my shipmates got the idea of making some sort of Christmas decoration for our shop. That in turn, prompted the other shops to do likewise. The theme was Christmas, and each participating shop produced a decoration which corresponded with the work carried out by each individual shop.

For us in the Pipe Shop, we took a length of 3" black steel pipe, put it in the pipe bender and bent it 180 degrees. We welded it to the deck of the shop and then went to the paint locker to get some paint. In no time at all, we had a giant 7 1/2 foot white with red striped candy cane. We then welded a piece of flat plate to the side with the words, "Season’s Greetings from Shop 56A.

The Sheetmetal Shop cut out large stars, bells, bows, etc and hung them from the overhead in their shop.

The Shipfitter Shop cut up strips of aluminum plate and welded them to a 1" pipe and formed a Christmas tree. They got cotton balls from Sick Bay and glued them to the branches.

The guys in the Machine Shop somehow got ahold of a small fir tree. They placed it on the deck just outside the door leading to the Mess Decks. The decorations were all the curled shavings that had been produced on the metal lathes. Looked pretty good with brass, steel, and copper curly ribbons adorning the tree.

As sailors will be sailors, a couple of guys came back from liberty in the late hours having consumed a few too many San Miguel’s. They decided to knock down our candy cane and take it to their lead Petty Officer’s bunk.

We recovered the candy cane and re-welded it to the deck in our shop the following morning.

That evening, once again too much San Magoo effected normally bright minds and the candy cane was once again stolen.

This time it found it’s way up to Officer’s Country and was placed on one of the dining tables in the Ward Room. Sadly, some dishes got broken by the bumbling burglars and the light-hearted hi-jinx became a serious problem.

The candy cane’s crooked end was cut off, the sign removed and the remaining piece of 3" pipe was place in the pipe rack to be used later on a job order from the fleet..

Somewhere, floating around in one of the Tin Cans of the Seventh Fleet is a section of steel pipe with candy cane stripes.

My time in the Pipe Shop lasted through the month of December and then I went TAD to Diving School for the duration of my second WESTPAC tour and then took up residence in the Diving Locker for the balance of my enlistment and one more WESTPAC cruise in ’67. Dave

From My Kitchen With Love by Aquamarine

Sour Cream Coffee Cake
2 sticks margarine softened
1 1/2 cups sugar
3 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
3 cups sifted self rising flour
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
1 cup or 8 oz container sour cream
1/2 cup milk
1/4 firmly packed brown sugar
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 cup chopped nuts

Preheat oven to 350 degrees, grease and flour bunt pan. Cream butter and sugar til light and fluffy, add eggs one at a time. Blend in vanilla, sift flour, mix soda in, add to creamed mixture alternately with the sour cream and milk. Mix well after each addition, then spoon half of batter into pan.

Combine brown sugar, cinnamon and pecans. Sprinkle over the mixture. Spoon remaing batter on top. Bake at 350 degrees for 55 to 60 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean. Cool 10 minutes in pan, turn out on plate.

Cornbread Dressing with Bacon and Pecans
1 pan of 9x9 cornbread
6 bacon slices
4 celery ribs, finely chopped
1 large onion, finely chopped
6 cups torn day old bread (6 slices)
2/3 chopped pecans, toasted
1 large egg, lightly beaten
2 tablespoons light brown sugar
1 tablespoon chopped fresh or 1 teaspoon rubbed sage
1 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon pepper
3 to 4 cups chicken broth

Prepare cornbread; cool and crumble. Set aside. Cook bacon in a large skillet until crisp; remove bacon, drain on paper towels, reserving drippings in skillet. Crumble bacon and set aside. Saute celery and onionin bacon drippings in skillet 10 minutes or until tender.

Combine crumbled cornbread, bacon, sauteed onion mixture, bread and remaining ingredients in a large bowl; stir well. Spoon dressing into a 13 x 9 baking dish. Bake uncovered at 375 degrees for 45 minutes or until golden. Yield: 10 servings.

Note: If you like your dressing drier and crustier use 3 cups broth in the recipe. Use 4 cups for a moister dressing. ~ Aquamarine

Holiday Lighting Tips by ST.LOUIE1

One Christmas, when I was about nine, I put a string of Christmas lights on our cat Muggsy. I plugged her in to three long extension cords so she could move around. Then I put her in the back yard. When I set her down, she started jumping up and down trying to shake the lights loose.

I ran in the house and told Mom and Dad to hurry and get to the window, that something wild was out back. My Mom looked out and said..."Oh, my God!", and nearly fainted. She thought I had electrocuted Muggsy. My Dad was laughing so hard he nearly choked. He stopped laughing when Mom told him...."If Muggsy dies, so will you and Tony!". I stopped laughing in a hurry and ran to unplug Muggsy.

When Mom's Irish temper flared - it was time to get thee away! Muggs was fine, no harm done....that's why I'm still alive and able to partake in Billie's 'Christmas Memories'. : ) ~ Louie

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[Diver Dave]

Hope you and Chads are feeling better. This is no time of the year to get "The Creeping Crawling Crud."

It sure would be nice if those ISP folks had a little more understanding that a day without FReeping is like a day without sunshine. Sometimes my DSL slows down to dial-up speed. GRRRR! Hard to imagine the first modem I had was a 2400 bps on an old 286 puter.

[Billie]

Actually, I only let him 'think' he's tricked me. You see, I'm a fox, and way too sly to get tricked by a wolf. :)

[daisyscarlett]

That's a cute card of the Christmas moose, especially for someone who is not in the Christmas spirit yet. How about some Christmas goodies....Will that put you in the spirit?...lol....I mean as long as someone elses bakes them, right...

[Billie]

Hi, feiny! Be sure and come back tomorrow to see your Roxy! Pet thread tomorrow! :)

These stories are really wonderful Christmas memories, and I appreciate all of them for taking the time to write something for me to fill this day's spot!

[Feiny]

YUMMY!!!! I think I put on weight just looking at them!

[ST.LOUIE1]

Wow. That "notice" poster is bestest. I can only imagine how much trouble one must cause to warrant one.
Congratulations.

Heck, Billie just looks at us and wants to do mean things. : (

(Methinks they will be a Mudboy Slim poster soon.)

Could be. Might be a FTH one, too. Stay tuned. : )

[dutchess]

Billie...how touching and fun today is!

WVNan...I loved the touched up photo of you and Uncle John. Bet that's one he is going to cherish and I bet a copy of that in a frame would make a great present! (p.s. you will have freepmail shortly!)

Just Amy. Loved your story and I think creating new traditions will help you through your loss PLUS will mean so much to your cousins, nieces and nephews. Since my mom's only sister died four years ago we've had the family Christmas at our house the weekend before and include her two sons, wives, and their collective 6 kids as well as my immediate family. It has meant so much to them and us....

DiverDave...loved your story...Hopefully some of our currently deployed military will have such fun

Aquamarine....both recipes sound yummy....We're having our after family celebration brunch next Sunday....am definately doing the coffee cake!!!

and....last but not least....loved your story "wolfie"....Our 14 year old cat has decided that Mr. D.'s clothes left on the floor is his own little litter box...and as I shared your story with him...we both thought...maybe...but then again NOT. Anyway...nice getting to know you!

[Feiny]

Will do....I look forward to seeing all the freepin pets.

[Billie]

I loved reading your post, Dave. Just loved it. The little touches you add of things you experienced are perfect. The pine cone from Linda's mom's Christmas tree while you were overseas, the ant-riddled cookies and candies....so sweet.

[Feiny]

Make that 'sleigh' ride....

[Billie]

The poster is Louie's creation - see, my mind doesn't think that way - it's too sweet, you know. :)

Now that you mention it, though, Mud probably DOES deserve his own poster. And Loddy...yeah, Loddy needs one too! LOL

[ST.LOUIE1]

Lady! How great to see you! : )

Louie, louie, louie, of course you would tell some outrageous story about your antics! LOL!
What a character you are, and I see have always been!

Well.....the shoe does fit. LOL

Mery Christmas, Lady. And to Chadsy. : )

Come back more often. : )

[Billie]

I got your FReepmails, Kay. Know those are good links, cause I saved some of the BEST lines, bars, and dividers from a link you provided!

Yes, this would have been the thread for your recipes. I'm sorry you've had things keep you away - during the ice storm - did you have an emergency generator to keep you in power and keep you warm?

[ST.LOUIE1]

Is this a photo of you dressing up your doggie?

LOL Wasn't much to dress after that.

[Billie]

....and the graphic of the "kitty in lights" made me laugh. I cannot imagine how he got that cat to sit still while stringing lights around him....

Well, she TRUSTED him, for goodness sakes! LOL!

[ST.LOUIE1]

Billie is Amy and Louie's pseudo Mom. LOL
And she hates us. See??

LOL! After reading your Muggsy story, and hearing of your Mom's Irish temper,
I can see such drastic measures might be the only thing that gets your attention!

LOL

Well, someday I'll tell you about Mom locking me in a closet. I shoulda sued her. LOL

[Feiny]

I may have to try that on my snake...I'll have the only slithering decoration.

[Aquamarine]

I'm a fan of mushrooms, I like that dish with my steak or on my spaghetti sauce.

[Billie]

Thanks, Dutchess. The Christmas photo of Giz this year is the sweetest thing - hey, did you know there's a "5 Signs You Love Your Pooch Way Too Much" thingie in a recent Reader's Digest? One of them is about 'dressing' him for Halloween. It didn't mention Christmas! LOL!

BTW, even though it was such a cute picture all dressed up like that, I 'cut' out ALL the animals and pasted them in various groups, so the setting, etc will not be as you sent it to me. :)

[kayak]

We managed to get a hotel room across town where the power wasn't out .... and we only did without for 2 days. Some in this area didn't get their power restored for 9 days! But it threw our business into chaos ..... at a time when things were already upside-down and backwards because we're in the midst of moving from a home office to a "real" office ....... long story.

Sorry I was late with my info ...... :-(

*hugs*