Posted on 01/03/2003 7:50:23 AM PST by TroutStalker
Edited on 04/22/2004 11:47:49 PM PDT by Jim Robinson. [history]
Anyone who has ever struggled to find a house to buy should intuitively understand the difficulties faced by the legions of accomplished, educated, 30ish women currently roaming society in search of a husband. They are the stuff of mass entertainment now, these handsome, quick-witted graduates of higher education. On TV, they're the saucy females of "Sex and the City" and "Will & Grace." They surface in fiction as lovelorn Bridget Jones and the hapless heroines of Pam Houston's best-selling short stories.
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My wife was passing the pencil test at 30 (and she isn't small there either). Of course, 16 years and three kids later that's no longer the case, but we've moved beyond that.
A while back, I did an article on the subject: "Was Patriarchy a Women's Scheme to Control Men?"
Speak for yourself.... some of us (20s-30s) like older women ;-)
What they don't realize is that, to many men, character and personality is more important than "strength". Strength is an asset to the extent that it's used FOR you, and a liability to the extent that a neurotic, self-centered person uses it AGAINST you.
Good idea. You are truly blessed if you have one who will let you...
ME! I just need to live long enough...
I am a divorcee. In order to end that relationship, which lasted just over a year (I shan't get into the gory details, but I realised I made a mistake fairly quickly), I was wiped out financially. Fortunately, I was able to find employment, but even so, every last penny that I saved prior to the split went to her. She also got much of my furniture and electronics. I sold off a couple of computers I possessed as well.
Now, I am not going around saying that I won't get married again - I will. But the lady in question can and should understand that my love for her is so deep that I am willing to risk having my life knocked over completely in the name of that love. However I think given this scenario, many other, perhaps more sensible men would balk. With the sexual revolution they do not need to get married to have sex anyway.
The second element is mental illness being more common - I am sure we can all relate stories about people having almost Jekyll and Hyde personalities, having dated the Jekyll one and finding the Hyde after the ring was on the finger.
Regards, Ivan
Regards, Ivan
Stay Safe !
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