That's very neat. I'll have to remember that when I forget an important date such as a birthday or anniversary. "I'm sorry but I didn't have an attorney to advise me this was your birthday!" What a bunch of baloney!
Unfortunately the child is dead. The grandmother's flip-flop is disgusting. Irresponsible parents who make excuses for their kids and blatantly teach them by word and example to disregard the rights of others = a new crop of Sociopaths!
My daughter teaches elementary age school children...she estimates about 20% of her class clearly demonstrate sociopathic behavior and have enabler parents.