Posted on 10/01/2018 2:07:24 PM PDT by MeanWestTexan
That’s horrible. This is the power given to women: to destroy any man at any time.
That’s awful. I feel like the #metoo movement has become competitive with the women who love to play victim. They hear a story and have to top the story, then the next one has to double down.
Many of us females experienced unwanted advances and worse. Guess what, it taught a lot of us how to set limits with men and we went on with life.
After much agonizing and consulting with female friends who were nurses and trying to set time lines between when we had sex and when the abortion occurred, we figured out that no way could the alleged child have been mine.
So I confronted her and told her I would be happy to pay the medical fees, just give me the bills.......
That was the end of that.....No bills, no abortion.
Prior to the demand, I had found out from one of her girl friends that she had hooked up with a drifter from down south who was living in a cheap motel and she was subsidizing his rent and living expenses since he was unemployed.
Her demand for compensation for the alleged abortion was nothing more than extortion in order to keep funding her boyfriend..........
That is one crazy story, “All because some random bitch lied.”
“A similar thing happened to Charlie Chaplin.
Sorry you and your family was put thru this!”
I forgot to tell the best detail:
AFTER the DNA test came back negative the second time, the Court had to decide if it was “in the best interest of the child” that I remain a “parent” because the process dragged on so long, despite diligent efforts on our part.
Mind you, I refused paternity the second I knew about the kid.
We were given court-ordered visitation. My wife had actually thought about visiting the family and being involved with the kid — making the best of a bad situation.
I had fortunately refused to ever meet the kid (except once in the hallway in front of the courtroom where the bitch tried shoving the kid in my arms), so I could easily testify that I had nothing to do with the kid.
The judge ruled with sanity, but still ordered me not to tell the kid (who, mind you, didn’t speak and probably doesn’t speak now, English) that it wasn’t my kid.
If the person you are suing has no means to pay then you are just wasting more of your own money.
Every state in the country has a procedure for amending the parentage on a birth record, so I don’t know what your lawyers were telling you.
“That said, my ex-wife accused me of pointing a gun to my older daughter’s head, accused me of physically abusing her, etc. during a divorce.”
True. Time to dig up all the stuff ex-wives ever said about a Democrat.
You know, because women never lie.
“Every state in the country has a procedure for amending the parentage on a birth record, so I don’t know what your lawyers were telling you.”
Now they do, you mean.
Go back a decade.
So sorry this happened to you. :( That’s horrible. Can a DNA test be submitted to clear your name from the BC? You need total closure and peace.
I am SO SORRY this happened to you! This woman should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law for what she put you through.
Maybe now.
But the kid is now an adult, so there is little point. He could just change his name to whatever.
And I am not reopening the can of worms.
“This woman should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law for what she put you through.”
You would think.
She was treated like the victim, though.
Scott Adams stated in his daily periscope broadcast the other day that 100% of famous welthy men are the subject of false allegations.
He then rattled off a few that happened to him - including a psycho from Canada whom he never met who made up stories about having a relationship with him and called and harassed his friends and associates - on and off, over the course of several years (when she went off her meds).
Any man who has been in a contested divorce with minor children in the past 20 years has had false allegations made against him - and the courts don’t care.
You were lucky (in a manner of speaking) because of the DNA test technology and the fact that you actually never met her (and she couldn’t prove otherwise).
Can you imagine what she could have put you through if you had actually had a relationship with her? Happens every day.
(This strikes too close to home for me to want to get into personal history, but trust me, I know of what I speak. And I spent twice what you did, if that’s any consolation.)
Smart men wait.
Mine as well.
You have the paternity tests to prove you aren’t the father. Find a lawyer that will get the job done. You have my sympathy, as does the poor child of this liar. One can only imagine what damage will be done to that little one’s life.
“Can you imagine what she could have put you through if you had actually had a relationship with her?”
I used to do a lot of charity work and helped actually abused women and orphans.
This taught me to stay away.
I don’t want to give anyone an “in”.
Thank you. Anyone else?
So sorry.
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