I say this in the kindest way so please take it like that. If you read my post to him you will see that I felt exactly the same way he did, before I had my son. After his birth it is a very different story however neither of us were advocating killing our unborn child but merely conveying that he does not know he could handle a special needs child. I beg to differ with him. This is an instant where I truly have walked in another mans shoes for only one of his journeys. I sincerely hope this has shed some light on the discussion and in a much more favorable light. I too feel the same way you do about the topic of killing innocent babies.
I recoil at all this testing they do before a baby is born because if someone does it, that must mean they’d consider killing a less than perfect child. I’ll never forget when my child called hysterical because she was pregnant and the doctor told her a test came back that something was wrong with her baby. She wouldn’t consider aborting the child and then the child was born perfectly healthy. How many babies are killed because they were considered less than perfect but there was nothing wrong with them. We need to stop playing God.