Posted on 10/03/2018 10:28:49 AM PDT by PresidentFelon
She gave me whatever I wanted in the bedroom(I mean whatever, threesomes, etc.) and when she was acting normal lavished praise on me. When I tried to correct somethings in the relationship by talking about them, she got angry beyond angry and then like the author, she was looking to phase me out. It got awful until I had enough. The breakup was horrible and vicious. Her sending me horrid text messages and insults about my manhood, how I was with my kids, my career. this continued into a year after our breakup. I was not quite right after that relationship. NPDers leave a toll psychologically on you. It stays with you. I can say after lots of therapy and being and loving myself I can say it got much better.
At least you now have these types figured out. Good for you.
Fortunately, I married a very sane one instead. Dodged that bullet.
Yes, sanity is preferred in a marriage partner. You and I are both very fortunate.
In today’s environment more than ever before, it’s become clear some women are psychopaths. To see a good movie about a women who is cheated on and takes revenge, see “Gone Girl.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZsF7IRTgMQ
Wow! Describes my ex wife to a tee. He also, bravely shows his weakness that allowed the tragedy to continue. I am guilty of the same and it took 10 years to break away. Feeling lucky I only lost 10 years and a bunch of money.
I am so glad I wasn’t born male. We have some coo coo friends. I say to my husband how’d you like to be married to that? My daughter works for a dating site. You can’t believe some of these people she has to try to write about and make them seem “attractive” and normal.
Well of course some men are psychopaths too. That knife absolutely cuts both ways.
It’s convenient to have categories and shortcuts when talking about behavior patterns and “narcissist” is as good as any but really it’s just old fashioned evil. Sinful.
They say “don’t stick your d In crazy” and thats fine but really don’t stick it in EVIL.
I never believed a bar was a good launching point for a relationship.
I never believed a bar was a good launching point for a relationship.
I’m having trouble feeling sorry for the writer.
Advice I got from a coworker, when he met a woman I was seeing:
Don’t draw to an inside straight; don’t tug on Superman’s cape; and never get involved with a woman who has more problems than you do.
Kind f blame shifting there, eh?
I’m not trying to be an Internet tough guy, but how do you NOT beat the holy hell out of someone who is INTENTIONALLY trying to destroy not only YOUR life, but the life of your family by spreading lies?
That was my first thought as well. Why the hell did he go back. The subconscious mind is a powerful thing I guess.
Since the psycho ex accused me of being a white supremacist an a child molester (based on an internet search that found someone with a similar name, that person now in a Federal prison) 21 years ago, I have avoided relationships. It’s risk avoidance. I am not talking about being commitment phobic, it’s about real legal risk.
I had to move to another state for 12 years.
I have been accused of “sexual harassment” twice.
Once, a disgruntled ex-employee filed racial discrimination and sexual harassment suits against the officers of our company, of which I was one. She was a former GLOW, looked like a man, had physically threatened us, and had a website full of naked and half-naked pictures of herself. Our lawyer literally laughed.
The second was just stupid. Our receptionist came in late Monday morning. We had this conversation:
She - “I had a rough weekend. My neck is really sore.”
Me - “What were you doing?”
She gets this shocked look on her face and runs to the owner to say that I made an inappropriate comment. An internal investigation ensued. I was questioned. She was questioned. The outcome was that I was asked to sign a letter apologizing to her. I objected to the wording in the first draft (that had me admitting to saying that I had said something in appropriate) and wrote my own, where I apologized if something I said had offended her.
Anyway...I sympathize with Judge Kavanaugh. It is a bitch to be accused of something you didn’t do. It is worse when that accusation carries a stigma all it’s own.
Metmom, I caught that comment, too. LOL He did not want to admit he was simply waiting for ANY old excuse... And when it brought on a nightmare of a dangerous type wouldn’t admit to picking up that box out of his own free will. Well, it’s hard to accept the messes we humans bring upon ourselves, often, isn’t it? Still, while she was a dangerous woman he should have admitted to being so weak in controlling his bodily functions. Sigh.
I see and agree where you’re coming from. The few times I’ve apologized I’ve been EXTREMELY limited in what cause I have apologized. It’s amazing how small statements can be taken out of context either unwittingly or on purpose. Unwittingly done can result in damages and often a contrite person who started an issue not realizing there was no issue. The one done on purpose...my opinion is to place those folks under jails and deprive them of any financial support system at all.
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