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For Larger Customers, Eating Out Is Still a Daunting Experience
NY Times ^ | 3/12/2019 | Kim Severson

Posted on 11/20/2019 7:15:01 AM PST by simpson96

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To: circlecity
It isn't easy, but it can be done.

Up until I hit the big 40, I could eat as much as I wanted and whatever I wanted without gaining weight. I was a skinny little runt at 6'2", 180#. I didn't go over 200 until I hit 50.

Even though I was watching what I ate and getting some exercise, I was close to 300# this March. It took me drastic action to finally get below 250#. Namely, few carbs, a boring breakfast of a protein shake, a boring lunch of coleslaw, vinegar based dressing & protein, doTerra oil supplements and 5 hours or more in the gym weekly. Each pound gets harder to lose. But like anything worthwhile, it is worth the effort and I feel a whale of a lot better and less like a whale.

21 posted on 11/20/2019 7:26:40 AM PST by Vigilanteman (The politicized state destroys aspects of civil society, human kindness and private charity.)
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To: simpson96

Go on a diet lardass.


22 posted on 11/20/2019 7:27:22 AM PST by bigbob (Trust Trump. Trust the Plan.)
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To: MrEdd

I’ve been to some restaurants where only a thin child could fit


23 posted on 11/20/2019 7:27:29 AM PST by nuconvert ( Khomeini promised change too // Hail, Chairman O)
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24 posted on 11/20/2019 7:27:44 AM PST by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BB0ndRzaz2o)
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To: simpson96
If she wants to be fat, all the power to her.

Just don't try and alter or change, or lower the quality of 'beauty' for men.

Stay off and out of SI.

25 posted on 11/20/2019 7:27:46 AM PST by deadrock
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26 posted on 11/20/2019 7:28:07 AM PST by deport
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To: simpson96

This reminds me of a few years ago when my dad showed me his 1950 college yearbook. He asked, “What DON’T you see?” There was not a single obese person to found in its pages. He had pulled out his yearbook after we returned from a trip to Wal Mart because he was disgusted by how many obese people we saw there.


27 posted on 11/20/2019 7:29:08 AM PST by Restless
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To: simpson96

“Chairs with...impossibly small seats” = normal sized chairs for normal sized people. Unless they are raiding the local kindergarten for chairs.


28 posted on 11/20/2019 7:30:24 AM PST by FormerFRLurker (Keep calm and vote your conscience.)
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To: simpson96
Deciding where to eat is a challenge.

While deciding what to eat never seems to be.

29 posted on 11/20/2019 7:31:24 AM PST by PGR88
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To: simpson96

They could sell those chairs to the gay bar down the street- flip them over, seat 4 on each.


30 posted on 11/20/2019 7:32:57 AM PST by NativeSon ( Grease the floor with Crisco when I dance the disco)
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To: simpson96
First, address the underlying medical and psychological issues as to why you're so heavy. Help IS out there.

Secondly, think about those times we've seen people that weigh 500+ being basically air-lifted out of their homes for some reason. WHO is feeding these people? They're not getting up, shopping, cooking, driving through the fast food lane by themselves when they can't even leave the house.

And, yes. I no longer have my Army-Ready 18 year old body, but I can fit in a restaurant booth! My problem (OMG! Do I have a handicap? Am I a VICTIM?!?!?) is that I'm only 5 foot 1 inch, so the tables are always slightly too TALL for me - it looks like I'm shoveling in food right from the table, LOL!

What about us Shorties? Where's our sympathetic article in a national publication?

*SNORT*

31 posted on 11/20/2019 7:34:46 AM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'hobbies.' I'm developing a robust post-Apocalyptic skill set.)
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To: webheart

“If I can’t put the menu between my stomach and the table I won’t sit there.”

My rule is that my boobs cannot hang over the table.

Boobs over table = NO booth


32 posted on 11/20/2019 7:38:31 AM PST by Trumplican
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To: simpson96

Calories eaten - calories burned = calories added to weight.

This is immutable fact.

Eat less, do more, mostly eat less.

Calorie restriction diets work.

Or just eat yourself to death quietly in your home, out of sight.


33 posted on 11/20/2019 7:40:17 AM PST by Born to Conserve
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To: FormerFRLurker

Alot of chairs at restaurants are very flimsy. My Father in Law is a tall guy, 6’4”, large frame (NOT FAT), with major back issues.

Many chairs at restaurants scare the hell out of me because I think they will collapse under him and seriously hurt him.

As a side note for any future wedding planners - skip the cheap folding chairs. If you need to rent chairs, rent decent chairs. He almost killed himself on one of those and is unbearably uncomfortable.


34 posted on 11/20/2019 7:40:57 AM PST by Trumplican
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To: webheart
I’m not exactly svelte either but I just don’t let them put me in a booth. If I can’t put the menu between my stomach and the table I won’t sit there.

When I go to a restaurant that has both booths and available tables, I tell the hostess "I'll wait for an available table, please". If the person then walks past tables and tries to put me at a booth, I smile and say "that's a lovely booth, but I asked for a table". Most times he or she understands and corrects the mistake.

35 posted on 11/20/2019 7:46:03 AM PST by COBOL2Java (Hillary Clinton: Just like Joe with only half the dementia.)
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To: simpson96
Already Posted.

For Larger Customers, Eating Out Is Still a Daunting Experience
NY Times ^ | 3/12/2019 | Kim Severson

Posted on 03/15/2019 1:52:11 PM PDT by RightGeek

36 posted on 11/20/2019 7:46:10 AM PST by Responsibility2nd
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To: simpson96

That degree of obesity didn’t happen over night, and it won’t be cured over night. It’s the result of bad decisions becoming bad habits … good decisions and good habits need to replace them.


37 posted on 11/20/2019 7:48:06 AM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: simpson96

Two words, Becky...low carb.


38 posted on 11/20/2019 7:49:54 AM PST by who knows what evil? (Yehovah saved more animals than people on the ark...siameserescue.com)
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To: simpson96

Lose some weight you whiny slob and stop insisting the world change to accommodate your self-inflicted condition.

You’re not a victim of anything except yourself.


39 posted on 11/20/2019 7:51:39 AM PST by IronJack
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To: simpson96
For people who identify as large, plus-size or fat, dining out can be a social and physical minefield.

Poor Dear. Poor, poor Dear. I have a clue to give her.

NEVER. Never book a flight on a commerical plane. Just don't even try.

40 posted on 11/20/2019 7:55:59 AM PST by Responsibility2nd
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