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Why Christians should welcome, rather than stigmatize, unwed mothers and their children.
http://www.christianitytoday.com ^ | 9 16 06 | Amy Laura Hall

Posted on 09/20/2006 6:23:31 AM PDT by freepatriot32

Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood, had a way with words. In 1922, she wrote a book chapter titled "The Cruelty of Charity." Charity toward the poor, especially toward poor immigrants, she opined, only "encourages the healthier and more normal sections of the world to shoulder the burden of unthinking and indiscriminate fecundity of others, which brings with it … a dead weight of human waste."

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KEYWORDS: and; children; christianitytoday; christians; mothers; rather; shame; should; stigmatize; than; their; unwed; welcome; why
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1 posted on 09/20/2006 6:23:35 AM PDT by freepatriot32
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To: freepatriot32

right ideas about the problems, but wrong ideas about the solution (abortions)


2 posted on 09/20/2006 6:27:35 AM PDT by Mr. K (Some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help...)
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To: freepatriot32
I like how Matthew put it....

“show mercy so that you will receive mercy” (Matthew 18:35 )

3 posted on 09/20/2006 6:28:58 AM PDT by Fighting Irish (Béagán agus a rá go maith)
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To: freepatriot32

Not a bad article.


4 posted on 09/20/2006 6:30:10 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Please pray for Vlad's four top incisors to arrive real soon!)
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To: freepatriot32
After hearing me give a talk on abortion, eugenics, and teenage pregnancy, my oldest daughter, with whom I had not yet initiated a talk about birds and bees, looked up at me and said frankly, "Mom, if God gives me a baby before I am married, I won't worry. I know that you and Dad would take care of it so that I could stay in school."

Sorry, but this comment absolutely made my blood boil. I'm raising a grandchild so I know of what I speak. This attitude SHOULD NOT be encouraged.

5 posted on 09/20/2006 6:31:05 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: freepatriot32

80% of those committed to federal prisons for dangerous crimes: murder, assault, armed robbery, rape, etc. come from the children of OOW births.

Reducing the number of such births is of crucial importance to society especially the Black community which in many cities is under a Reign of Terror from these youths.

Those who do not recognize this and just say "it's ok" are adding to the problem.


6 posted on 09/20/2006 6:32:06 AM PDT by justshutupandtakeit (If you believe ANYTHING in the Treason Media you are a fool.)
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To: freepatriot32

I was the child of a young unwed mother. I was lucky that my dad did take responsibility for me.


7 posted on 09/20/2006 6:32:33 AM PDT by cripplecreek (If stupidity got us into this mess, then why can't it get us out?)
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To: truthkeeper

That attitude is a prescription for disaster as we can see everywhere around us.


8 posted on 09/20/2006 6:33:02 AM PDT by justshutupandtakeit (If you believe ANYTHING in the Treason Media you are a fool.)
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To: justshutupandtakeit

Yeah...don't I know it.


9 posted on 09/20/2006 6:34:00 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: freepatriot32

I admit I did not read this whole article, as the author's style seems quite verbose.

But this quote, supposedly from the author's daughter, jumped out at me: "Mom, if God gives me a baby before I am married, I won't worry. I know that you and Dad would take care of it so that I could stay in school."

What? Is she serious? Is God in the business of just "giving" babies to teens these days? Has this author not told her daughter how babies are created, and that the daughter's actions have EVERYTHING to do with whether she will be "given" a baby? And the daughter would certainly be an anomaly to have two parents who would assume the responsibility to care for this child. How common would that be in today's world?


10 posted on 09/20/2006 6:36:03 AM PDT by Joann37
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To: truthkeeper

You beat me to it!

The author's reply should be: "Yes, we would take care of it. We would find a Christian adoption agency to place the child in a Christian two parent home, because that is what God says is best."


11 posted on 09/20/2006 6:39:32 AM PDT by iowamark
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To: freepatriot32

I don't know any Christians who stigmatize unwed mothers or make them feel unwelcome.


12 posted on 09/20/2006 6:41:23 AM PDT by SquirrelKing
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I like this better: What about this title instead: Why Christians should disciple, rather than stigmatize, unwed mothers and their children.

The blank check to do whatever the hell you want to do, sometime over and over again, is both financially and spiritually draining our nation. There is an idea in the Bible known as repentance - going and sinning no more. The local church is not a social service program - it is a place where people can assemble together and give honor and glory to God. The rest (swing sets, basketball courts, backpacks for poor children) is extra.
13 posted on 09/20/2006 6:41:28 AM PDT by AD from SpringBay (We have the government we allow and deserve.)
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To: iowamark

Agree totally.


14 posted on 09/20/2006 6:43:32 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: freepatriot32

had the teens been acting in a christan like manner, they wouldn't become pregnant in the first place. to blame christians for their reception of un-christian-like behavior is like blaming a fish for not liking dry land.


15 posted on 09/20/2006 6:44:11 AM PDT by camle (keep your mind open and somebody will fill it full of something for you)
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To: iowamark

Excellent!


16 posted on 09/20/2006 6:51:29 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Please pray for Vlad's four top incisors to arrive real soon!)
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To: truthkeeper

I agree with you, although I don't have your experience. "If God gives me a baby"? God doesn't go around knocking up girls. He did it once only, and I don't think anyone else should expect that kind of outcome.


17 posted on 09/20/2006 6:53:04 AM PDT by linda_22003
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To: justshutupandtakeit
80% of those committed to federal prisons for dangerous crimes: murder, assault, armed robbery, rape, etc. come from the children of OOW births.
Reducing the number of such births is of crucial importance to society especially the Black community which in many cities is under a Reign of Terror from these youths.
Those who do not recognize this and just say "it's ok" are adding to the problem.

You are 100% right on the money. Well said.
Sleazywood and its populace not only say "it's ok" but they DO it and glorify it. The number of Sleazywood slut actresses shacking up and having babies OOW and with other woman in lesbian relationships (Rosie O'Donnell, Jodie Foster, to name two) is disgusting and dismaying.

The series Murphy, with Candice Bergen, added that when Murphy had a baby OOW and dismissed the father of the baby as nonsequiter and unimportant.

Remember? That's when V.P. Dan Qualye made the remark about fathers being IMPORTANT....and was EXCORIATED by the entire immoral/amoral group of pagan, athiest, godless, souless trash that calls itself the MSM, Sleazywoodians and feministsazis.

Our African-American community has a 70% OOW rate and pays the price of that enormous failure to its children.
One of these days it WILL listen to folks like Bill Cosby and stop blaming everyone else (Read that as whites.) for ITS failure in that area.
I always wondered why their hellfire and brimstone ministers didn't HAMMER away at that gigantic failure. Either they DID and no one listened or they DIDN'T because they knew no one would listen.
Either way, the morality has to be part of the community and culture but the example and role model has to come from the top.
I guess that leaves Rev. Jackson out of the picture.

18 posted on 09/20/2006 6:53:06 AM PDT by starfish923 (Socrates: It's never right to do wrong.)
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To: SquirrelKing

I don't either. Unfortunately, I do know some that by their efforts NOT to "stigmatize" have gone all the way to another extreme - I'll call it indulgence - and in doing so have watched more than one unwed mother of one child become an unwed mother of multiple children.


19 posted on 09/20/2006 6:53:30 AM PDT by Kylie_04 (not consuming liquids while posting since 2006)
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20 posted on 09/20/2006 6:54:10 AM PDT by freepatriot32 (Holding you head high & voting Libertarian is better then holding your nose and voting republican)
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