[Texan5]

As a woman of experience who only likes real macho men-I think it is safe to say that these metrosexual men who bitch and whine online are not going to be accepted by real women-they’d better cowboy up if they want a woman...

[VanDeKoik]

I think the last thing women in the west these days should be doing is demanding anything from guys.

There is very little that men can get out of some lady that is way too high on themselves and demanding some “cowboy” nonsense, and way too much they can lose.

And women bring next to nothing to the table but fininacal and legal liabilities to make anything but surface hookups attractive to most dudes, let alone anything remotely serious.

[Nothingburger]

Well, there’s your “macho” alpha males on one end of the spectrum. And there’s your metrosexual beta bitch boys on the other.

What about the regular guys in between?

I’m in my early 60s, so this whole issue has become moot for me now. Being a lifelong bachelor has its compensations — like not having to worry about being dragged into family court by a vengeful ex-spouse. The daily helping of peace and quiet grows on you as well.

Still, human nature is what it is. And female hypergamy can’t be denied. Women only want the top 20 percent of men, more or less. If you look good and have money, you’ve got a shot.

I consider my lack of success with women had a lot to do with my scholarly personality. Girls in their 20s just weren’t interested in the latest history books I had been reading. And by the time I was in my 30s, I was working six-day weeks and just grateful to have Sunday to crash and get ready to start it all over again. There wasn’t time, money, or energy to pursue women.

But if the gay boys can say “that’s who I am,” well shouldn’t a straight guy with bookish propensities be allowed the same privilege? At least I’m not likely to catch an STD from all the World War II books in my house.

[Tolerance Sucks Rocks]

Or become actual cowboys, truck drivers, bankers, stockbrokers, oil rig workers, etc.

[papertyger]

Please describe what you are calling “real women.”

[rollo tomasi]

Is men in plural forum on purpose? What kind of girl are you? J/K



Young women have more freedom to compete for the top 20% and if the men are smart enough to understand this/other motives, just pump and dump because a lot of women have commitment and emotional issues to even trust them nowadays. No hymen, no diamond. Female empowerment comes at a price, smart guys know this, *Incels* are better off not going through that in the end in the first place.

Boys who grown up seeing their dad's get raped in family court does not help either. Tell your girlfriends to admonish riding the male genital carousel, end #metoo, quit referring male competitiors along with criticism as toxic masculinity, refuse hypergamy, eradicate no-fault divorce, and promote how males/females compliment each other then maybe men would trust women again.

[wgmalabama]

Agreed. Unfortunately they we taught at age 5 to behave this way. Society has failed many men to lift a few others.

[Bonemaker]

“As a woman of experience who only likes real macho men...”

Well that makes 3 or 4 like you.

[sparklite2]

As a woman of experience who only likes real macho men

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Appreciate the honesty. Women who said they want sensitive, caring men will crap all over one when an abusive alcoholic shows up at the door.