Why I Didn’t Sing When I Visited Your Church

Challies ^ | 03/21/2017 | Tim Challies

[SeekAndFind]

It was a joy to finally visit your church a couple of Sundays ago, and to worship with the believers there. You know I’ve been looking forward to it for a long time. Just as you promised, the pastor is an excellent communicator and a man who loves God’s Word. His sermon was deeply challenging and led to some great conversations with my children.

Now, you asked me why it looked like I wasn’t singing. I know that was probably a little awkward, so thought I’d send along a brief explanation. Primarily, it’s because…

…I was not familiar with the songs. Your church has a tremendously skilled group of musicians leading them and it was a true joy to hear them play and sing. They sound as good live as they do on their album! But, unless I missed something, all of the songs on that Sunday were drawn from their own music. There weren’t any hymns in the service or even any familiar worship songs. So it’s not that I didn’t want to sing; it’s just that I didn’t know the songs. I want to be fair—every church has some of its own songs, and there is nothing wrong with that. I tried to follow along the best I could so I could learn some of yours, but even then…

…the songs weren’t congregational. Most of them seemed to have been written with the band in mind more than the congregation. What I mean is that they were unpredictable and often went beyond my vocal range and ability. This made them tough to learn and difficult to sing. Sometimes I would just begin to think I had it, but then…

…your singers would ad-lib. Twice through that final chorus they sang it one way, but then on the third they did something I didn’t see coming and just couldn’t follow. Was I supposed to follow them up the scale as they went high on that final chorus, or was I supposed to stick with the original melody? I didn’t want to mess it up, so figured I’d better keep it quiet. I might have had help there, but…

…I couldn’t hear the congregation sing. I wanted to learn from the people around me, but I couldn’t hear them. A lot of them seemed to be singing along, but they were far quieter than the band. Don’t get me wrong, I love loud music and often crank it to silly levels when I’m at home or in my car. (I’ve even got it at an obnoxious level as I write these words.) But as I understand it from Colossians 3:16, a key element of congregational worship is hearing the congregation. Singing is in the realm of “one-another” ministry, meaning that we are to sing for the other people there. But that was tough because…

…it felt like a performance. We were in a darkened room sitting on theatre-style seats. The band was on a brightly-lit stage at the front of the room, singing their own songs with the volume cranked right up. This set a context that struck me as more concert than church. I really enjoyed watching the band and listening to them, but it felt to me that they were doing rather than facilitating the worship. So finally I just sat back and enjoyed the show.

Now, please don’t think I’m trying to rekindle the old worship wars. I believe there is room in congregational worship for both traditional hymns and modern worship songs. I love them both! But the way the music was structured and implemented in your church was just not conducive to congregational worship. It was good, it was professional, but thinking about it now, I can’t help but wonder if perhaps it wasn’t a bit too good and too professional. I wonder if the desire for excellence may have robbed it of much of its usefulness. It’s worth considering: If our desire for excellence puts the music out of reach for the congregation, perhaps we’re pursuing a wrong definition of excellence.

[Zuriel]

Are there people that fake a spiritual behavior?....I don’t doubt it for a second. A spiritual pastor knows how to handle it.

But, also keep in mind that when the Holy Ghost fell on the 120, in the upper room, they were praising God in languages that were not their native tongue. Was that any reason for the onlookers to accuse them of being drunk? I think that their praise must have been exuberant and joyful.

[BipolarBob]

God doesn’t do things without a reason. The “foreign” languages weren’t foreign to those that spoke that language. The purpose of different tongues is to communicate to those present that speak that different tongue. God confused the languages at Babel and He can un-confuse them at His desire.

[Zuriel]

**The “foreign” languages weren’t foreign to those that spoke that language.**

They weren’t foreign to the ones listening, because they were hearing the languages of their origin. But they were amazed to hear Gallileans speaking those foreign tongues. And with God giving them that power, I sure they spoke it perfectly, not like a first year French student, for example.

There ARE unknown languages:

“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels..” 1Cor. 13:1
“For he that speaketh with an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him: howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries.” 1Cor. 14:2

People that fake tongues, or emotions (whether it be in singing, prayer, or praise), sadly, are mostly hurting themselves. And don’t you just hate the phony testimony: “I love the Lord with all my heart”, when you are certain that nobody really does. Even Paul said, “I die daily”. We try. Some harder than others.