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A Few of FR's Finest...Every Day...-1-05-05...Celebrate Living #9
dutchess

Posted on 01/04/2005 8:02:18 PM PST by dutchess



A Few of FR's Finest....Every Day
Free Republic made its debut in September, 1996, and the forum was added in early 1997.   Over 100,000 people have registered for posting privileges on Free Republic, and the forum is read daily by tens of thousands of concerned citizens and patriots from all around the country and the world.
A Few of FR's Finest....Every Day was introduced on June 24, 2002. It's only a small room in JimRob's house where we can get to know one another a little better; salute and support our military and our leaders; pray for those in need; and congratulate those deserving. We strive to keep our threads entertaining, fun, and pleasing to look at, and often have guest writers contribute an essay, or a profile of another FReeper.
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~ Billie, Mama_bear, dutchess, Aquamarine,






Celebrate Living #9

Today we are featuring more suggestions, observations and reminders on how to live a happy and rewarding life. Some are private, most are excerpts from "Life's Little Instruction Book" by H. Jackson Brown, Jr. Please stop in..and add your own. Also,, please click on the music link below (Songs of Africa). We guarantee the combination will make you feel good all day. Enjoy!
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Suggestions on how to live a happy & rewarding life:


Take time to smell the roses.


Never risk what you can’t afford to lose.
Never tell a man he’s losing his hair. He already knows.
Remember that the “suggested retail price” seldom is.
Never say, “My child would never do that.”


Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
Replace the batteries in smoke alarms every January 1st (OR January 5th if you haven’t done so already :o) )
Remember that ignorance is expensive.
If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others WHILE you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.
Listen to your critics. They will keep you focused and innovative.


Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of good luck.
Remember that what you give will afford you more pleasure than what you get.
Display your street number prominently on your mailbox or house in case emergency vehicles need to find you.
Remember that everyone you meet wears an invisible sign. It reads, “notice me. Make me feel important.”


Never hire someone you wouldn’t invite home to dinner.
When someone has provided you with exceptional service, write a note to his or her boss.
If you lend someone money, make sure his character exceeds the collateral.
Accept the fact that regardless of how many times you are right, you will sometimes be wrong.
Every once in a while ask yourself the question, If money weren’t a consideration, what would I like to be doing?
Encourage anyone who is trying to improve mentally, physically, or spiritually.
Remember that half the joy of achievement is in the anticipation.
Get involved with your local government. As someone said, “Politics is too important to be left to the politicians.”


Never swap your integrity for money, power, or fame.
Never sell yourself short.
Fool someone on April 1st.
Never remind someone of a kindness or act of generosity you have shown him or her. Bestow a favor and then forget it.
Never be ashamed of your patriotism.
Never be ashamed of honest tears.
Never be ashamed of laughter that’s too loud or singing that’s too joyful.


Visit friends and relatives when they are in the hospital. You only need to stay a few minutes.
Don’t think that sending a gift or flowers substitutes for your presence.
Become a tourist for a day in your own hometown. Take a tour. See the sights.
Never ignore evil.
Be especially courteous and patient with older people.
Remember this statement by Coach Lou Holtz, “Life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it.”


Never eat a sugared doughnut when wearing a dark suit.
When you are away from home and hear church bells, think of someone who loves you.
When friends offer to help, let them.
Acknowledge a gift, no matter how small.
Remember hat your character is your destiny.
Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
Worry makes for a hard pillow. When something’s troubling you, before going to sleep, jot down three things you can do the next day to help solve the problem.


Buy a red umbrella. It’s easier to find among all the black ones, and it adds a little color to rainy days.
Attend a high school football game. Sit near the band.
Give children toys that are powered by their imagination, not by batteries.
Remember that your child’s character is like good soup. Both are homemade.
Life is short. Eat more pancakes and fewer rice cakes.
Regardless of the situation, react with class.
Become the kind of person who brightens a room just by entering it.
Borrow a box of puppies for an afternoon and take them to visit the residents of a retirement home. Stand back and watch the smiles.


Be thankful you were born in this great country.
Be thankful for the re-election of GWB.
Be thankful for our brave military men and women past and present.


Never forget life before Free Republic.
Thank those who open the Finest door every morning with coffee, goodies and words of wisdom.
Give thanks for all our Finest Friends.
Give thanks for Jim Robinson and FreeRepublic









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01-03-05...Military Monday
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To: dansangel

Happy Birthday (((Dansy))) - finally. ;)


41 posted on 01/05/2005 8:52:18 AM PST by Aquamarine
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To: The Thin Man
Happy birthday, dansy! Here's your gift....

I must say that is the *finest* toothpick I have ever received! :-)

Or, from your point of view, it might even be a 2x4.

Thank you for thinking of me (((((((skinny dood))))))))

:-)

42 posted on 01/05/2005 8:59:00 AM PST by dansangel (Proud monthly donor - are you?)
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To: dutchess

Thank you ((((((dutchess)))))))

Purple is *my* color!

:-)


43 posted on 01/05/2005 8:59:55 AM PST by dansangel (Proud monthly donor - are you?)
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To: Aquamarine

Thank you ((((((Aqua)))))))

Hoping you are feeling just fine today!

:-)


44 posted on 01/05/2005 9:00:42 AM PST by dansangel (Proud monthly donor - are you?)
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To: dansangel
I'm glad I dropped by to see what's going on.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.......


45 posted on 01/05/2005 9:22:03 AM PST by WVNan
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To: WVNan

Thank you for the beautiful angel globe (((((Nan)))))))


46 posted on 01/05/2005 9:37:17 AM PST by dansangel (Proud monthly donor - are you?)
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To: dutchess
All the vet could suggest was something you plugged into the wall like one of those fragrance things that was supposed to change his mood. There is nothing physically wrong with him. He had his yearly physical/shots last month.

I shampoo the area with carpet shampoo the kind used for pet stains. Then I put fabreeze on the spot.

47 posted on 01/05/2005 12:07:01 PM PST by GailA (Happy New Year)
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To: dutchess; Billie; Mama_Bear; Aquamarine; JohnHuang2; WVNan; ST.LOUIE1; Diver Dave; dansangel; ...
What a delightful new list of thing upon which to reflect, dutchess!
"Never forget life before Free Republic.
Thank those who open the Finest door every morning with coffee, goodies and words of wisdom.
Give thanks for all our Finest Friends.
Give thanks for Jim Robinson and Free Republic."

We most assuredly are privileged to have and participate in so wonderful a community, and appreciate the dedication of the hostesses and hosts and all participants here at The Finest.

dutchess, I enjoyed reading all of the offerings on this list until I came to "Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon."
Afraid I process this as "abandon cooking whenever possible" (right, Sistah Nan?!) !!

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Based upon something related when my son and his son were here for Christmas, I feel compelled to add for the younger ones with children here:

"Realize that events with children that cause gray hairs at an early age can later be viewed with a quite different perspective -- can one day be chalked up to a "Spirit of Glorious Adventure!"

Flash back to 1963 and our arrival in Fairbanks, Alaska, my husband stationed at Eielson Air Force Base, 30 miles south. For a family to accompany him, a sponsor there had to secure affordable housing, and ours had found a nice apartment in town.
AFTER we arrived and moved in, we discovered he had 'fibbed' to the landlord, withholding the fact we had two dogs, not allowed in the complex. We were told we had 30 days to find another abode.

There we were with no money, on half pay for 6 months to repay the travel advance, in an area with an astronomical cost of living beyond the means of the enlisted and the woefully inadequate Cost of Living Allowance.

With the boys 7 and 8 in school, a baby girl 3 months old and one car, there was no way I could work.
Fairbanks then was a small town, and my husband scoured ads posted in laundromats for possible places to rent. Checking in one, he was reading an intriguing ad for someone with carpentry skills when the woman who'd placed it walked in.

Mary had moved to Anchorage, but before leaving had invested in a property west of Fairbanks near the Airport -- had bought and moved there in the woods half of an old military barracks building. The upper half had already been renovated into a spacious 3 bedroom and large living areas apartment, and she needed someone to live in the unfinished bottom half and finish it - rent free!

Fortunately, Bernie's father was a master carpenter (although a foreman in a GE plant in Dayton) and passed skills to his sons.
We thus for 6 months lived a half mile from the Chena River, he happily plastering the bedroom walls, finishing the panelling in the main rooms, istalled the ceilings, and me assisting with all things and being the official painter.

Even with no rent, we existed much of the time on donated from hunter friends moose and caribou meet, lots of macaroni and cheese, and old Korean Conflict C-rations from the base (great canned chicken and tin of fruit cake). We shared them often with another younger military couple in worse circumstances.

Oh - did I mention we also took in Mary's teenage son so he could finish high school there? And her ex-husband lived in the unfinished basement and sometimes ate with us?!!
After that apartment was finished, Mary had us finish a 3 bedroom house a block away she'd moved there -- I painted the whole interior with a heavy coat on in 35 degree weather in May, the heating system not yet installed.
Military wives have to be versatile..:))
LOL

At any rate, where in Florida when my boys were little they dodged snakes when they went out to play, there were none in Fairbanks -- Mommo's Admonition became "Watch out for the moose and caribou and foxes and wolves going through the yard to drink at the Chena River and returning to their territory."
They had the fun of there being a cache on stilts in the yard as the perfect place from which to leap after a heavy snowfall fell on the already several feet on the ground; and also a rare one wet enough to build a monstrous snowman with Dad's help, taller than he was. (I have photographs)

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Now - as for "The Glorious Adventure" that a week ago we related to Steve's son, Ryan (21), Bernie told him something his Dad had not!
One day Dad drove down the road (about 2 miles) to the Fairbanks airport to watch the traffic, having flown planes as a teenager. Driving parallel to the fence, he saw a B-25 parked, with one engine firing up. Stopping to watch, thinking it soon would taxi to the runway and take off, he saw a little hand wave at him!

With horror, he recognized the small face with it as just-turned-9 son Kevin - and the "pilot" was just-turned 10 Steve!!

They'd walked to the airport to watch planes, too, and climbed aboard the B-25 to see the controls -- and Steve somehow figured out how to start the engine!!
Kevin was looking out the window to watch the other engine fire up, saw Dad, and waved to invite him to join them!

Dad naturally sweated Security descending and explaining to Feds his sons would not really hijack the plane (would they have tried to take off??!!), and being in serious trouble with the Air Force.

Needless to say, Ryan enjoyed the tale enormously -- as we did in retrospect.
Ah, the things we survive as parents, and there are dozens of other escapades that at THIS end of life we can savor, and laugh, the culprits turning out smashingly well.

By the way, both fly, and Kevin went with the FAA, now in his 22nd year of government service (starting in the Army), although now with the TSA in West Palm Beach, and ready to retire in 5 1/2 years if he chooses. Still maintains his pilot's license, and used to co-pilot Angel Flights to take ill children to Gainesville for treatment.

May you one day be able to look back with warmth and glee, too ---

48 posted on 01/05/2005 12:58:08 PM PST by LadyX ((( To God be all praise and honor and glory -- )))
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To: dutchess; Aquamarine; Billie; Mama_Bear; LadyX; WVNan; Pippin; GailA; JustAmy; ST.LOUIE1; ...

Good afternoon and thank you, dutchess...I have so many blessings..The Finest is one of them.


49 posted on 01/05/2005 1:02:21 PM PST by MEG33 (GOD BLESS OUR ARMED FORCES)
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To: ST.LOUIE1; dansangel; .45MAN; dutchess

Louie, Louie - U missed yer Cluie!

That is a "devil's" food cake for Dans"ANGEL??!!"

LOL, and a very happy birthday, dansy ---

50 posted on 01/05/2005 1:04:39 PM PST by LadyX ((( To God be all praise and honor and glory -- )))
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To: dansangel

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANSANGEL!


51 posted on 01/05/2005 1:04:55 PM PST by MEG33 (GOD BLESS OUR ARMED FORCES)
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To: dansangel
Happy Birthday
52 posted on 01/05/2005 1:31:44 PM PST by firewalk
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To: LadyX

*smiles*


53 posted on 01/05/2005 1:33:34 PM PST by firewalk
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To: dutchess; ST.LOUIE1; Mama_Bear; dansangel; Billie; Diver Dave; Kitty Mittens; The Thin Man; ...
Good afternoon, finest friends. One of my favorite sayings is, "We cannot change the direction of the wind... but we can adjust our sails".

Have a great evening, everybody.
54 posted on 01/05/2005 1:57:09 PM PST by Texagirl4W (Father, bless the person reading this in whatever it is that You know they are needing this day!)
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To: dansangel
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR DANSY!


55 posted on 01/05/2005 2:23:10 PM PST by Kitty Mittens
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To: dutchess

This is a Great Thread, Dutchess, Chock Full of Good Advise. Thank you for it!


56 posted on 01/05/2005 2:24:42 PM PST by Kitty Mittens
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To: LadyX
I was Riveted to your Interesting Post, dear Lady! Sending you Love in our King, and many Cyber-Hugs!

(((((Maggie)))))

57 posted on 01/05/2005 2:27:53 PM PST by Kitty Mittens
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To: LadyX
"abandon cooking whenever possible" (right, Sistah Nan?!) !!

You are absolutely right, Sistah. Cooking is for sissys. No self-respecting adventurer would be caught slicing and dicing vegetables. Give us blizzards, floods and windstorms to survive and let us figure out a way to do it. My new hero is the young man who floated for 8 days on a tree in the sea. He managed to open coconuts to eat and used the shell to catch rainwater. The very thing I had thought was the thing to do if one could find a coconut tree to cling to. I also liked the island tribe that shot arrows at helicopters who flew by to check on them. They let it be known that they didn't need rescuing. They have lived and died by the sea for generations. They understand it.

Sistah, your tales remind me of some of our hard times. Winter of 85 was such a time. Temps 27-30 degrees below zero and all the heat we had was one small kerosene heater to heat the whole house. Hubby unable to work and me waiting tables at the Cracker Barrel basically for tips to put food on our table. Had to sell off most of our years of collectables, and stand in the commodities line for gov. cheese.

I'm off soon to tackle the flood waters to get to church. Wish me safe passage.

58 posted on 01/05/2005 2:28:19 PM PST by WVNan
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To: Texagirl4W

I Pray Betty is doing Better every day, Texagirl! I'm still Keeping her in my Prayers.


59 posted on 01/05/2005 2:31:48 PM PST by Kitty Mittens
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To: WVNan
Hi, sweet Nan! Sending you many Hugs and all my Love in our Lord!

(((((Nan)))))

60 posted on 01/05/2005 2:33:06 PM PST by Kitty Mittens
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