Posted on 04/01/2006 6:40:33 PM PST by twippo
I am sure a great many wives, and not a few husbands, struggle, but they do not murder their spouses in cold blood.
"Divorce is unthinkable to most evangelicals."
So then, murder is the preferable option?
he did stray, but has come back to The Lord as of the mid 90s
Whoa, a very broad brush there, no need for that sort of stuff.
It's a two way street.
I guess all of us could ask ourselves if there isn't something we could do FOR the family, for the pastor, for his/her children.
Well, I have studied what they teach and I believe that I am correct. But thanks for your input.
That has what to do with a woman murdering her husband who happened to be a minister?
My guess is that he was messing around, or it was her time of the month.
He's a great golfer, though.
"I guess all of us could ask ourselves if there isn't something we could do FOR the family, for the pastor, for his/her children."
There is something you can do - and this is from personal experience....
Tell the pastor to take care of themself FIRST... and their family SECOND... with their job somewhere after that.
I can't tell you how many times I've watched clergy work themselves sick (literally), and be REWARDED for it in pity points. "Oh, gosh, look how much Rev Jones loves us, and how much they sacrifice for God."
GARBAGE.
If God needs another martyr then God will call one. There is absolutely NO need for every pastor to be one.
If anyone works more than 55 hours a week then they kill themselves, their family life, and make stupid mistakes that make them COUNTER-productive (not just UN-productive).
Unfortunately, most clergy like to sit around and talk about how they work 60 - 70 - 80 hours a week. If a pastor says that they only work 40 hours a week (except emergencies and Holy Week) then the other clergy consider them lazy and unholy and actually work to get them dismissed from their ranks.
The successful partnerships I have known have been couples who ARE a team and share everything, like two pages on a single sheet. A true marriage is two persons becoming one in the flesh. I guess these are as rare as other saints.
"They (church of Christ) are somewhat cult like and believe that anyone not baptized is not a Christian."
I fail to see how the church of Christ is a cult because they believe and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ, who taught,“He who believes and is baptized, shall be saved” (Mk. 16:16)?
The broad brush, in this case, is that all but the most liberal of denominations would agree that Baptism is essential in order to be a Christian. You'll find no objection from Catholics, Orthodox, Lutherans, Episcopalians, and many others on that point.
She is disgusting. I think that if he treated her like she should have been then she would not have killed him. Sometimes people are not allowed to do anything in the name of false religions and this is what happens. This does not happen in the Catholic Religion thankfully. It seems this is a Evangelical problem that needs to be fixed.
Evidence?
"Sometimes people are not allowed to do anything in the name of false religions and this is what happens. This does not happen in the Catholic Religion thankfully. It seems this is a Evangelical problem that needs to be fixed."
Kinda like priests who aren't allowed to marry, and end up in sex scandals with the altar boys?
Please understand, this cheap shot wouldn't be necessary except to show you that we (all religious groups) are pretty much struck with the same club, and that includes Roman Catholics.
Perhaps you should reconsider your remarks?
"This does not happen in the Catholic Religion thankfully. It seems this is a Evangelical problem that needs to be fixed."
It doesn't happen in the Catholic church because priests DON'T HAVE WIVES! Your bias is showing.
Some other time, it's late. Suffice to say that they do not believe in Salvation by grace.
For one thing, that's completely untrue, but let's ignore that for the moment. Suppose it were true. Does the fact that a religious group holds a doctrine that you disagree with make it a 'cult'?
I have seen this phenomenon illustrated very clearly in my old church. It is up to the pastor to establish unambiguous boundaries and expectations on the part of the congregation with respect to his wife. Typically, she is NOT part of a "package," and is entitled to her own private life and relationship with her husband.
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