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Never, Ever Leave home without It.
Real Life | 8/21/2005 | CholeraJoe

Posted on 08/21/2005 6:02:36 AM PDT by CholeraJoe

"Never, ever leave home without it." No, not your American Express card, your sidearm.

This morning, I woke up about 4:15 and was hungry, so I decided to drive to the local 24-hour beanery. The only other customers were a table of 10, intoxicated 20-somethings making alot of noise.

There were 7 muscular young men and three loud-mouthed young women. After listening to their raucous laughter for 10 minutes, I politely asked the waitress to ask them to hold down the noise. All I wanted to do was eat my breakfast in relative peace.

Her request for quiet lasted about 45 seconds, then the noise and laughter resumed. At that point, I decided to do something.

Bear in mind that I am not an imposing figure. I'm 5'9", mid 50's, and slim. I walked over to the table, and walked completely around it twice. I said, "I'd like y'all to hold down the noise for a while, please." One of the young men started to give me trash-talk but within seconds was elbowed by the guy next to him, who whispered something in his ear. Then everyone at the table said, "Yes, sir, or OK."

What made the difference? Open carry. I was wearing a 9mm semi-auto on my right hip. I never touched it and I made no threats, but it was nevertheless visible.


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To: CholeraJoe
I have taken my .9 mm and laid in on the dash of my car in plain sight when I have felt threatened once. Also, MANY years ago, when I was in grad school delivering pizza on weekends to make extra money (a wife and two kids) I have let the grip of a pistol "hang out" of my pocket as I was walking up the sidewalk as I walked past a bunch of guys at 12:00 midnight in the projects. Those are the ONLY two times I have ever displayed a firearm. Guns are for self defense, not to make the restaurant nice and quiet so you can eat the way you like. Relying on your strap on (double entendre intended) to make you a badass actually makes you a poster child for the anti gun nuts. Bragging about it makes you a DUMB poster child for the anti gun nuts. I am a fanatic for rtkba, and unfortunately, I realize that this right must protect your rights as well, even though I think you a BAD BAD BAD example of how to utilize a gun.

Keep it up and someday you will meet someone who is more stupid than you are, and you can spend the rest of your life either justifying how you shot that stupid punk, or wondering at how fast he was able to pin your arm so you could not get it out, and then marvelling at how he beat the living sh!t out of you.

201 posted on 08/21/2005 7:43:05 AM PDT by chronic_loser
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To: CIB-173RDABN

The funny thing about gasoline, is that it often lights up with just a spark, when you don't want it to. It's not the bullet that lights it up, but if that bullet has a metal jacket, like a hornady 45 xtp hollow point, the spark it makes bouncing off the concrete will.


202 posted on 08/21/2005 7:43:16 AM PDT by Nathan Zachary
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To: patton
I have had a CCW for about five years - and I have never "showed" to anyone.
What you did was wrong.

If this were a CCW situation I would agree with you. We should never show a firearm to impose our will on another. However, this was not a CCW. It was open carry, a permissible act in many states.

What happened here was simply a person asking for civil behavior from another. Perfectly legal and needed far more today IMO.

Choosing to carry openly is not a reason to give up standards or the ability to ask for civil behavior.

203 posted on 08/21/2005 7:44:43 AM PDT by kAcknor (Don't flatter yourself.... It is a gun in my pocket.)
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To: CholeraJoe
Pumped two glasers into his skull. That's self-defense isn't it?

But you weren't looking for trouble...yeah...right. And that circling the table twice, that wasn't so that they could all get a glimpse of your bad-assed little piece right? Uh-huh...sure. The more comments I read, and the more I think about it, the more I realize that it's a pity you weren't arrested for menacing.

204 posted on 08/21/2005 7:45:15 AM PDT by Melas (The dumber the troll, the longer the thread)
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To: CholeraJoe
"The "No shirt, no shoes, no service" might well be as illegal as "No blacks.""

Only in your unique way of thinking.

Face it, you initiated a potentially deadly confrontation over nothing. Nothing but some conduct you perceived as impolite. I tried to be polite to you the first time, but honestly the fact that you confronted these people over something as low-stakes as some drunken loudness makes you look like a small person.

I'm gonna step out of this conversation because at this point I don't want to be seen talking to you. Go ahead and have the last word...

205 posted on 08/21/2005 7:45:22 AM PDT by OKSooner (And besides, you're still not the PO-lice.)
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To: CholeraJoe
You should have put that in the original vanity, otherwise it sounds like people laughing and talking and sobering up, rather than disorderly racial cussing, etc, etc. and it makes you look like somebody who couldn't sleep, perhaps a little tired, and wanted to impose their will on a situation underway.
206 posted on 08/21/2005 7:45:32 AM PDT by evolved_rage
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To: patton

"What you did was wrong."

Affirmative.


207 posted on 08/21/2005 7:46:38 AM PDT by e_castillo
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To: CholeraJoe

Cholera Joe,

I live in Massachustts, a traditionally anti-gun state, so perhaps I treat my concealed carry permit with some delicacy, since it was so touchy to get it.

When I applied, my instructor suggested I request a concealed carry permit. My town requires that I have to write a letter to the Chief of Police explaining why I need it.

I know that rankles people who don't live here, and I understand why, but that is the rule in my town.

My instructor explained: The Chief of Police doesn't want to have to explain later on why he approved a concealed carry permit for a murderer.

So, I disagree with what you did. Doesn't make me right, but just my opinion. If they had been harassing other diners, throwing food around, and perhaps telling the owner to shove it, maybe it might have been appropriate.

In this case, noisy, intoxicated post-adolecents...I don' t really think so.


208 posted on 08/21/2005 7:46:45 AM PDT by rlmorel ("Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does." Whittaker Chambers)
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To: CholeraJoe

what state has open carry?


209 posted on 08/21/2005 7:47:41 AM PDT by e_castillo
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To: CholeraJoe; XJarhead
If I owned that establishment, I would consider 10 rowdy kids at 4:30 am much less of a problem than a lone guy wearing a gun. Frankly, I wouldn't permit firearms in my establishment anyway unless they are worn by cops.

The Switzerland argument is total crap. The Swiss do not carry their Swiss Army Weapons around town and brandish them openly -- that would be a crime! The guns are kept at home as part of the Swiss defense strategery.

People like you are the best argument against allowing weapons in public. Your actions were beyond irresponsible. What gave YOU the right to decide the noise policy inside a restaurant and then threaten other customers with your obvious intimidation tactic backed up with a gun? Were you the owner, manager, or a cop? No, you were just another customer making a complete fool of yourself -- and for what? Noise?

The fact that you are so proud of yourself for scaring a bunch of kids is the most pathetic part of this disgraceful tale.

210 posted on 08/21/2005 7:48:58 AM PDT by You Dirty Rats (Forget Cindy; The Problem Is The Left and MSM Who Use Her to Attack Bush AND Our Troops!!)
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To: Nathan Zachary

Agreed,it is the fumes that ignite, not the liquid.


211 posted on 08/21/2005 7:49:32 AM PDT by CIB-173RDABN
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To: CholeraJoe

By my figuring, I've had about 17,000 breakfasts so far. Shame I didn't know in advance I was entitled for every last one of them to be exactly the way I wanted. Guess I'm a pussy.


212 posted on 08/21/2005 7:51:16 AM PDT by Tijeras_Slim (Now that taglines are cool, I refuse to have one.)
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To: Melas
open carry is illegal in Texas.

Surprising. Not only is open carry legal in Montana, concealed carry without a permit is legal while engaged in, travelling to or returning from any outdoor activity in which self-defense might be necessary, such as hiking, hunting, fishing, skiing, snowmobiling, etc, as long as one is outside city limits.

213 posted on 08/21/2005 7:51:48 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: cbkaty

Thanks for the code. My humble cusory reading doesn't see any violation, that should involve the police.

There were no fighting words, exposures, unreasonable noises (disrupting the business in question).

If that table refused to be quiet, at the request of one patron, and the restaurant staff chose not to call the police, what is the violation?

DK


214 posted on 08/21/2005 7:51:50 AM PDT by Dark Knight
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To: CholeraJoe
Nothing I did was threatening. The weapon on my hip was no more obtrusive than my bald head.

Did it occur to you that one of those muscular young men could have jumped you & grabbed your gun?

And pointed it at you?

215 posted on 08/21/2005 7:53:18 AM PDT by Republic If You Can Keep It
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To: dangerdoc
I am all for carry, either open or concealed. But, I believe that if you choose to carry, you have an extra responsibility to avoid confrontation.

Right. I must comment that since being LTC, I find I no longer get angry in traffic, and have become more passive. I just keep out of the way of @ssholes.

I hate paperwork, and courts, and things like that. Even if someone does a vehicular assault that I can prove, and I (rightly) plug him between the eyes, I am probably going to lose my house paying for legal fees, and possibly my freedom.

Things can escalate too fast. This is not a rehearsal, it's for all the chips.

216 posted on 08/21/2005 7:53:46 AM PDT by Gorzaloon
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To: nerdwithamachinegun
"Individual self defense is secondary and incidental to that from what I've read in the Federalist and Anti-Federalist papers."

Neither the Federalist nor the Anti-Federalist papers address the Bill of Rights--they only address the text of the un-amended Constitution. If you want to understand the Federal Constitution's Bill of Rights, the place to look is at the pre-Constitution Bills of Rights of the various states. The best statement is from the Connecticut state constitution (paraphrasing, as I don't have the exact quote handy) "that the people have the right to keep and bear arms for defense of themselves and their own state, and the taking of game". Self defense, militia duty, and hunting were ALL reasons for codifying the RKBA.

217 posted on 08/21/2005 7:54:13 AM PDT by Wonder Warthog (The Hog of Steel)
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To: The Red Zone

218 posted on 08/21/2005 7:54:24 AM PDT by Boazo (From the mind of BOAZO)
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To: Dark Knight

See a couple of my prior posts. The raucous laughter was punctuated by four letter words and racial slurs.


219 posted on 08/21/2005 7:55:10 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: e_castillo

Arizona is one state I know of.

NC theoretically has open carry, but it would be insane to try it here in Chapel Hill.

If anything, carrying openly demands that you show MORE courtesy, restraint, and civility. Having a lethal weapon on your person demands that you take more crap off people than you normally would.

This comes from a 5.9" guy who got into constant fights in HS while weighing less than 160 lbs. Carrying that kind of chip on your shoulder when sporting a weapon is a recipe for trouble. A firearm is the LAST resort for settling problems, not a flashing billboard to announce that you can't be ****ed around with.


220 posted on 08/21/2005 7:55:32 AM PDT by chronic_loser
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