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I Have Lost a Friend Over the Election

Posted on 10/29/2008 2:12:34 PM PDT by libertarian9

I have been an Independent for most of my life but this year I registered as a Republican.

A have a friend who I've known for 22 years. He is an Obama supporter.

He has ended our friendship because I am supporting McCain and not Obama.

He has gone so far as to say that I'm not the person he thought I was all these years. I am angry and sad and a little stunned.

Anyone else having similar experiences over the election?


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To: libertarian9

Several yars ago a good friend of mine and I were talking about the election at the time, I think Gore/Bush. He objected to Rush Limbaugh and talk radio and I asked him innocently and a little bit mischieviously “Would you make it illegal to speak on conservative beliefs?”

He paused. He paused for Pete’s sake! And then said no. He lied to me and I haven’t spoken to him since.

He is a socialist with all the fascist trimmings.


101 posted on 10/29/2008 2:27:25 PM PDT by texmexis best
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To: 4rcane

I lost a friend of 14 years (he is black, I am white) when he said (3 months ago) that “America deserved the Twin Towers to be hit”. I said “do you mean that those 3,000 people deserved to die?” and he said “Yes!”, and went into a rant about how horrible America is. I could not believe my ears!

I have refused to speak to him sense.


102 posted on 10/29/2008 2:27:25 PM PDT by PWDirector (Brown Water Navy, Mekong Delta, 1970 & 1971 -The MSM and the Libs caused 3.5 million needless deaths)
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To: libertarian9
My country is more important than any friend.
103 posted on 10/29/2008 2:28:09 PM PDT by Cobra64 (www.BulletBras.net)
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To: libertarian9
You can always pick up more "friends" of exactly his caliber by making sure to have a bowl of cocaine in your living room at all times.

And to be grotesquely honest, do you *really* want someone hanging around who is *at least* one following?

1) A gullible moron
2) A crypto-facist
3) A secret communist
4) A neuro-linguistic programmee
5) An Afro-Lenninist

104 posted on 10/29/2008 2:28:09 PM PDT by Infidel Puppy
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To: libertarian9

a friend will respect your views and beliefs

did this person, nope

so therefore??????????????????????????????????????

Every liberal wants to impose their view, get in your face, never listens AT ALL.
I have found them the most intolerant lot I have ever met in my life.Have a different view then that is it for them.
They sort of remind me of a spoilt child

My wife is from MA but I got her out of that state.

we went back to visit her mother and decided to go out for a few drinks.
Anyway we bumper into a friend of hers, supposed friend I MIGHT ADD.

Anyway coming out that night from the bar this woman see’s my wife’s bumper sticker saying marriage =man and a woman

this woman said that she was bigoted , how could she have this sticker, OMG about 20 times

Needless to say the politics comes up and my wife realised just how radical this woman was with a few drinks in her when discussing politics.

Was funny though looking at this woman’s face when my wife said that tolerance goes both ways and that those who shout tolerance are the most intolerant.


105 posted on 10/29/2008 2:28:33 PM PDT by manc (Marriage is between a man and a woman no sick MA,CT sham marriage end racism end affirmative action)
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To: MarkeyD
You’re too new here to be posting vanities.

Bah.

It's a good vanity.

106 posted on 10/29/2008 2:28:55 PM PDT by TChris (So many useful idiots...)
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To: libertarian9; weegee

I think I still remember the tune of the Soviet National Anthem (not the words, though), so my transition to the New Shining Future oughta be a painless piece of cake!


107 posted on 10/29/2008 2:29:40 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: libertarian9
Better dead than Red......my friend.

I want opportunity for my Boys in a Free Country

Your friend has misplaced his loyalty......

Welcome home to Free Republic.......

108 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:15 PM PDT by thingumbob ("Use your brain........vote McCain!" (Remember, dead terrorists don't make more terrorists!))
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To: libertarian9

I have Democrat friends who are terrified of an Obama presidency.


109 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:22 PM PDT by Ruy Dias de Bivar
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To: libertarian9

I haven’t lost any friends over this election but a couple of years ago a long time friend started sending me political stuff I disagreed with. Rather than argue with her about it, I asked her to please stop. She didn’t so I asked her again. She got really angry with me and ended our friendship. Sad, but then again, what kind of person does that?


110 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:22 PM PDT by brytlea (Change is like weather--it's not all good.)
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To: libertarian9

There are times when you’ll have friends and family who disagree politically. When you do, there isn’t much you can do about it. Be cordial, answer questions when they are asked, and remain friends.

Better to have them know a person they respect who is a Conservative, than a person they loathe who is one.

You are not obligated to evangelize them. Be their friend. I have had this problem with a family member. I had to back off. So what I did was start looking for openings.

When they complained about how much the government took out of their check, I agreed. I said something like, “I don’t like redistribution of wealth either.”

If they talk about some leftist thing that is forced on their kid at school, agree. Say something like, “I think parents should be the gatekeepers concerning what their children are exposed to.”

If they voice disagreement about socialist polices, agree. Tell them you don’t like Marxism either.

If they respond by asking what you mean by that, just explain as best you can what sound policy is. You don’t have to tell them it’s Conservative/Republican policy. They’ll know.

Small steps.

My family member doesn’t know it, but they have expressed some very sound Conservative concepts this election cycle. When they did, I agreed and reinforced the points that are core to Conservatism, without ever mentioning Conservatism, Republicans, or the right.


111 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:31 PM PDT by DoughtyOne (If The One were running with an (R), imagine how the press would cut him to ribbons...)
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To: TChris

Where is that old FreeRepublic when vanities were frowned upon?


112 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:47 PM PDT by MarkeyD (THE DEMOCRATS LIED, THE ECONOMY DIED.)
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To: TChris

Look at the hits we gave the vanity too - it was a topic we all have experienced in some way or another.

Glad to air out things like that here - too many hurt feelings in this election - I find this place a refuge where I can relax and enjoy what people write and think.


113 posted on 10/29/2008 2:30:49 PM PDT by imintrouble
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To: libertarian9

Me too. But glad the tru colors came out.


114 posted on 10/29/2008 2:31:03 PM PDT by screaminsunshine
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To: libertarian9

Youre not alone. My own sister called me a Jackboot. I’ve filed her under moonbat who I rarely speak to anymore.


115 posted on 10/29/2008 2:31:44 PM PDT by DogBarkTree (Hope in one hand and Change in the other. Which hand gets dirty first?)
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To: libertarian9

Consider yourself fortunate. A friend does not make demands on a friendship.


116 posted on 10/29/2008 2:31:47 PM PDT by billhilly (I was republican when republican wasn't cool. (With an apology to Barbara Mandrell.))
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To: davek70

This false messiah, Obama, while pretending to unite, he is really attempting to divide and cause a race and class war. The more “civil unrest” that he can cause, the more violence that may result and the more power he can seize. Our adult child is a liberal. I don’t know whether or not he is drinking the Obama Kool-Aid, but it appears so. He does not discuss politics with us, and I think he regards us as just unsophisticated, not very well educated yokels. Anything we have sent him on Obama, he refutes it with some retraction or something.

I am SO sick of this common jerk, Obama, and the strange hold he has taken on a lot of people. He is a Marxist and dangerous, and I pray that a lot of people wake up and smell the coffee before the election.


117 posted on 10/29/2008 2:31:55 PM PDT by Twinkie (PRESERVE THE CONSTITUTION !!!)
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To: Blogger

Blogger..You got it!


118 posted on 10/29/2008 2:32:03 PM PDT by screaminsunshine
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To: libertarian9

From now on all my friends are gonna be strangers. I’m all through ever trusting anyone. The only thing I can count on now is my fingers. I was a fool believing in you and now you are gone.


119 posted on 10/29/2008 2:32:31 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: libertarian9

Never, I don’t associate with or do work for anyone that is one bit short of die hard conservative and tell the others to go to hell!


120 posted on 10/29/2008 2:32:31 PM PDT by dalereed
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