Posted on 04/13/2017 8:11:02 AM PDT by walford
"Most people enter their first relationships with the traditional idea of sexual exclusivity. It's just the way we're socialized in our culture."
For some couples, non-exclusivity might take the form of attending "play parties" together and swapping partners, watching other couples have sex, dating other people or even entering into polyamorous relationships with multiple partners. Determine what's OK and what's not.
(Excerpt) Read more at cnn.com ...
God Bless You too.
Great to be married!
Ah life’s fun...
You don’t get to win at everything.
Still, I’ve to be me...https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rbLlCxK0pHY
And enjoy myself....https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=n7VT2EHa0b4
In my world it means being crazy in love and not having the slightest interest in playing around with somebody else.
Looking at those that lasted you find that they all had a set of rules about sex. They were not all the SAME rules but they all had rules about who could sleep with who.
It ranged from strict celibacy (works fairly well as long as you take in orphans), to one man and one woman (works every time), one man and several certain women (may work as long as you can give each their own place) but there were always rules.
What never works is, everybody sleeps with everybody. We are not programed that way. Sex is not a game of cards where it does not matter who you play with. It matters. It matters on a very primal level.
It is not just a matter of children either. We long for someone to be tied to exclusively. Yes, even the guys who claim they don't want to be tied down throw a fit when they find out their special girl was sleeping with someone else.
You can call it social conditioning but the truth is that sex means something to humans. All humans. Everywhere.
G.K Chesterton was a very sharp guy.
Recently I went a little nuts for a fellow. He wanted monogamy, but only considers intercourse sex.....That’s the legacy of BILL CLINTON coming back to bite us.
Like I told him when I said goodbye, “If it FEELS GOOD, it’s SEX!”
DUH
LOL!
My dogs favorite treat is warm cat turds out of the litterbox.
Apparently I’m being more than usually annoying today.
LOL not at all. I just like having fun when people equate animals and humans. Animals always do stuff that human beings are supposed to be smart enough not to do.
Ian Kerner is an example of an adult with an infantile level of emotional maturity: his concept of right and wrong revolves around instant gratification.
The left’s drive for promiscuity is intended to destroy the nuclear family because it is an impediment to their power. They want children alone and vulnerable so they can be indoctrinated into liberal fantasies.
Great post.
>>>Like I told him when I said goodbye, “If it FEELS GOOD, it’s SEX!”<<<
Well, that explains my deep and meaningful relationship with chocolate mousse!
LOL!!!!
That’s pretty much how Edmund Burke and Russell Kirk saw it.
I’ve known two couples, one in the 1970s and one in the 2010s, who decided that they should get involved in this. ‘Open marriage’ was the 70s version, ‘The Lifestyle’ in the 2010s. ‘Lunacy’ is what I called it both times, and my dire predictions were hooted down. They had evolved beyond jealousy don’t you know.
It took maybe a year for the 70s marriage to blow up. Ironically enough the wife, who had instigated the whole thing, is the one who was driven crazy with jealousy. In the 2000s the husband was pushing it and the wife went along. That lasted maybe two years before the husband was caught “cheating” (adultery has rules, who knew?) by meeting up with someone on his own time and the wife filed for divorce. I was two for two and insufferable in my gloating.
Does the mousse tell you it loves you? Don’t fall for its sweet talk.
Hahahahaha!!! “Sweet talk”!!! That was awesome!!!
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