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FReeper Needs Advice: How Can We Better Respond To Pro-Aborts?
Sparta | 26 Nov 02 | Sparta

Posted on 11/26/2002 9:49:54 AM PST by Mr. Silverback

Sparta graciously gave me permission to post the text of this freepmail, which was sent to me from the "Pro-Life Families Complain About Group's Telemarketing Calls" thread:

This was going to be off topic, so I chose to freepmail you this instead.

I was debating abortion with my friends today. They were saying that abortion should be legal because children of poor parents would grow up in misery. Also, raped women would be too traumatized to carry their children. Also, teenage girls would have their lives ruined by caring for illegitmate children. I said that adoption would give the children a chance for life in the first two situations a better life and I said the teenage girls need to learn how to responsible. They then said that pro-lifers were just cruel and evil. How do I better respond to pro-abortion arguements?


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To: Mr. Silverback
Show sadness instead of anger.
61 posted on 11/26/2002 8:57:28 PM PST by xdem
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To: Mr. Silverback
It was a clip from "Raiders of the Lost Ark", where the evil Gestapo thug Toht says "Shoot zem. Shoot zem both!"

N.B. IT WAS A JOKE!

62 posted on 11/27/2002 5:33:08 AM PST by Illbay
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To: airborne
My commuter skills are limited at best. I sit in traffic for almost an HOUR in the mornings!
63 posted on 11/27/2002 5:34:27 AM PST by Illbay
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To: Mr. Silverback
They were saying that abortion should be legal because children of poor parents would grow up in misery.

First tell them they must be consistent in their beliefs. This belief is that any life deemed a nuisance should be destroyed. Say for instance if the parent's mother or father had to move in with them and was crippled requiring them to spend money and time to take care of the elderly parent. In this case the elderly parent should be killed to save the life of the entire family. Usually when you start confronting liberals with other balanced and equal scenarios of their logic they start to retreat or they show their true evil colors in which case go buy a cross and where it around your neck to ward them off.

Also, raped women would be too traumatized to carry their children.

What if raped women were killed to alleviate the traumatization of the husband? How can the husband be expected to look at his wife and care for her the same way again? This is a bit of a leap but its a common practice in Islamic countries.

Also, teenage girls would have their lives ruined by caring for illegitmate children.

Simple answer to this is explain how? I know several teens that gave birth to children and they are doing absolutely fine. This is simply nonsense. A teen with a child is less likely to get in trouble and in effect becomes more mature than the people around them. Given the state of the drug culture. A teen with a child might actually improve her odds of reaching 20.

64 posted on 11/27/2002 5:50:55 AM PST by Naspino
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To: Mr. Silverback
If a woman is raped, she needs to report it immediately to the authorities and go in for medical attention. This will prevent disease and make sure that all that can be done to bring the rapist to justice is done. In addition, I believe she should avail herself of the "morning after" pill which is NOT AN ABORTION!!! It is taken within 48 hours of unprotected sex and PREVENTS PREGNANCY! If a woman is too stupid to report the rape and go for medical attention, then I have nothing more to say.

Teenagers shouldn't be having sex, period! They're not mature enough to handle the consequences. If a teenager gets pregnant, however, she and the father of the baby need to be held accountable for their actions. Adoption, obviously, is the best option. Abortion is wrong, dangerous, painful, disgusting and sick. No woman should be subjected to such a violent intervention.

Abortion causes a higher rate of developing breast cancer. Go to www.AbortionBreastCancer.com for more information.

In short, abortion stinks any way you look at it.
65 posted on 11/27/2002 9:43:38 AM PST by Saundra Duffy
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To: Sparta
I think your best defense is a good offense. Don't try to make them feel they are wrong, just agree that they have a point. But, let them know that there is more than their views involved in abortion. Instead remind them that one should try to prevent pregnancy in the first place. If impossible in the case of rape or incest, then there is adoption. This option is no more tramatic than rape or incest. Plus it has a positive side. If they can't accept any of those, then show them a picture of an aborted baby. A picture of an aborted baby is good to have handy for people who seem so detached from abortion. My 2-cents.
66 posted on 11/27/2002 9:53:12 AM PST by beachn4fun
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To: Mr. Silverback
Personally (and this comes from a woman), if women and girls don't want to deal with a pregnancy, the best way to avoid pregnancy is keep their legs closed.

My, what a radical and bold concept you've presented here...I'm sure you'll go on to claim, in that smug ProLifer manner, that this method is 100% effective.

It is clear that you are well aware of the stats on the various methods available. I just stated the obvious is all..No smugness here.
67 posted on 11/27/2002 12:15:18 PM PST by Pintobean
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To: Mr. Silverback
when dealing with friends who see choice as the only way for americans to go, i ask some simple questions...

it is your feeling that everyone should have a choice?
yes.
even fathers? no, it is not their body.
so fathers have no right to choice? correct.
if a woman chooses to terminate the pregnancy, say through natural child birth, and raise the baby, should the father be mandated to support that child? of course.
even though he chooses not to have it go to term? it is a father's responsibility to support that life he helped bring in to the world.
so he has no choice and must be responsible for his actions? yes.
but a woman doesn't have to be? correct.
then women will never be equal to men, because men are held to a higher standard. no, er, women are equal to men.
then make them care for the unborn. it's their constitutional right to choose.
choose life. stop the murder.
68 posted on 11/27/2002 4:59:59 PM PST by teeman8r
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To: philosofy123
So according to your idea of Christian ethics, if one were to see said woman being beaten, one should just walk on by. Not beating a woman yourself would be the proper Christian response according to you, because you are providing the proper example.

Interesting, except that's not what Jesus did Himself. He stopped a crowd from stoning an adultress. And in so doing, he was, according to you, behaving as ``Mohamed and his barbarians(sic).?''

69 posted on 11/28/2002 1:37:44 AM PST by nickcarraway
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To: Mr. Silverback
This battle will best be won a step at a time. First get rid of late term abortions, and how about parental notification ?
70 posted on 11/28/2002 1:54:21 AM PST by John Lenin
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To: Mr. Silverback
When any pro-lifer debates this issue, it is absolutley imperative that they do so with the utmost humility. DO NOT become loud, abnoxious, venomous, etc. etc. DO speak from the heart so the genuine love for the unborn may make an indelible impression on our enemies. This is the battle of hearts and souls, and as such, our tact should reflect that. To "screech" our convictions to our enemies, in my humble opinion, is not consistent with our issue of defending the unborn. In short, it really isn't what you say because one need not be eloquent to defend the atrocity of cold-hearted butchering. It's how you say it..... so charge ahead with humility and meekness dear soldiers.

Mr. Silverback, I want to be on you ping list.
71 posted on 11/28/2002 7:01:03 AM PST by Prolifeconservative
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To: Delphinium
Ask him what he thinks God meant when he said in Isaiah, describing how precious we are to Him: "I knit you together in your mother's womb." Ask him if God lies when he says His name is the God who Provides. Ask him what is the Godly concept of guilt and innocence. Just in an "inquiring minds want to know" kind of way.

Listen carefully to his answers and get the Hell away from him if you think he is perverting the word. It would be better that he had a milstone tied around his neck than that he cause one child to suffer. This could be God's way to move you to another church.

72 posted on 11/29/2002 2:42:07 PM PST by Dutchgirl
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To: Illbay
comuter=computer
Thick-fingered blush ;')
73 posted on 11/29/2002 5:21:05 PM PST by airborne
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To: Dutchgirl
He doesn't do an teaching now, but is an elder in a church he was the pastor of 40 years ago. The pastor there now is great. I have not shared this discovery, (that the guy believes in abortion) to anyone. It has really bothered me, and I feel that I should ask him about it. After I share all these scriptures, I will decide what to do from there.
74 posted on 11/29/2002 6:28:54 PM PST by Delphinium
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To: philosofy123
If you have morality/conscious, do not abort your kid. By your example they know that you are mine, if you love each other. That is real Christian answer to abortion.

The religious police in Saudi Arabia beat women if they are not covering themselves and men if they are eating during Ramadan! Any stupid foaming at the mouth militant Christian, who is crying over the murder of babies, and would like to force others to stop, is not behaving as Jesus asked us to do; but behaving as Mohamed and his barbarians.

If William Wilberforce had taken your attitude and shown what a great abolitionist he was by just refusing to own slaves, the slave trade in the British Empire might have continued for decades. Instead, he tirelessly lobbied Parliament and got laws passed.

What if MLK had taken your attitude and fought Jim crow by being nice to a few white folks?

We're not talking about militancy, tyranny or "foaming at the mouth." We're not talking about telling folks how to think or dress. We're talking about stopping 4,400 homicides a day. To compare those who want to protect innocent children with the Islamifascist thugs of Saudi Arabia is beyond the pale. If I were you I'd either clarify this post or apologize for it, depending on whether we're reading you right.

75 posted on 11/30/2002 12:31:59 PM PST by Mr. Silverback
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To: Prolifeconservative
Consider yourself on the list. I will not be posting any new threads for the list until Monday afternoon--sorry folks, personal stuff.
76 posted on 11/30/2002 12:34:22 PM PST by Mr. Silverback
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To: Delphinium; Dutchgirl
It has really bothered me, and I feel that I should ask him about it. After I share all these scriptures, I will decide what to do from there.

You (and Dutchgirl) have the right approach here. What I would suggest though is that you take this directly and immediately to your pastor if the guy can't see reason. Just because he's not currently teaching doesn't mean he doesn't need to have the right view of the value of human life before God. Also, if he doesn't need to worry about whether others are having abortions he might ignore a woman's troubles at the time of her greatest need, and that's a recipe for disaster.

77 posted on 11/30/2002 12:42:07 PM PST by Mr. Silverback
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To: Mr. Silverback
Dinesh D'souza suggests to study the Lincoln-Doulas debates on slavery to better argue one's position on abortion. If you read up on the slavery debate between the two parties at the time, it's eerily similar to the abortion debate of today. Here's an excerpt to some info:

http://www.lib.niu.edu/ipo/ihy980232.html

Lincoln and Douglas debated the expansion of slavery, the authority of states to control slavery within their own borders, and whether the Dred Scott decision had been a wise one. In the Dred Scott decision, the United States Supreme Court stated that a slave was not a human being, and therefore was not allowed to sue for his freedom. Lincoln's and Douglas's opinions on the expansion of slavery were quite different. Lincoln opposed expansion, while Douglas believed in popular sovereignty, or the ability of each state government to determine its own laws and policies.

In fact, Douglas was known to hold the position that while he wouldn't own a slave of his own, it wasn't any of the federal government's business if anybody else wanted to own one.

78 posted on 11/30/2002 12:57:06 PM PST by paltz
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To: philosofy123
Whaddaya know? I just came across this:

BreakPoint with Charles Colson
Commentary #000524 - 05/24/2000
Engaging the Culture: Can Christians Avoid It?

On BreakPoint's web page, we recently ran a poll asking people how they thought Christians ought to engage the culture. The answers were revealing -- and, for me, a little disheartening.

Twenty-seven percent of respondents said we ought to change the culture by winning people to Christ. Twenty-two percent thought we ought to pray for the culture. Fourteen percent said we should set up an alternative, parallel culture as an example.

But just 17 percent said we ought to work within the political system to change the culture.

Well, that's bad news, because while prayer and conversion efforts are obviously at the heart of our call as Christians, so is attempting to influence the culture we live in, to bring Christian truth to bear on politics and every area of life.

A new book by Christian author Tim Stafford shows us why. Stafford's book is called THE STAMP OF GLORY. It's a novel set in the years leading up to the Civil War. The plot involves a small band of abolitionists who conclude that slavery is a sin -- an offense against God Himself. But instead of trying to pass laws banning slavery, these men and women attempt to change the hearts of slaveholders.

After all, they reasoned, laws were fundamentally coercive. Many slaveholders were Christians. Would it not be better, they asked, to expose the sinfulness of slavery, and appeal to slaveowners to repent of their sin?

The novel echoes real life events. In 1833, abolitionists formed the American Anti-Slavery Society. Efforts at coercion were strictly prohibited. As the society's Declaration of Sentiments put it, they intended to destroy "error by the potency of truth . . . overthrow . . . prejudice by the power of love . . . and [abolish] slavery by the spirit of repentance."

But the anti-slavery group soon discovered an unpalatable fact: Very few slaveholders were ready to repent. In fact, they were outraged that these abolitionists were criticizing them! Meanwhile, three million slaves continued to suffer in bondage.

Abolitionist leaders gradually realized that they could not avoid the political realm. They began questioning candidates about their views on slavery. They published what would today be called voter guides. They started their own political party, called the Liberty Party, and ran their own candidates.

When these efforts failed, they attempted coalition politics. Ultimately, abolitionists joined forces with the newly formed Republican Party. In the end, most of them supported Abraham Lincoln, though at that time he was not a true abolitionist but someone willing to compromise with slavery in order to save the Union.

Today, many Christians are taking a hard look at the degraded state of American culture and asking if they ought to limit their activities to prayer, conversion, and gentle persuasion. Should we get involved in politics? Or should we stick to purely spiritual weapons?

The lesson from the anti-slavery movement is that we must do both. We need to pray for and witness to our neighbors. But we must also commit ourselves to political and cultural transformation.

If you have doubts about this, I recommend you read Tim Stafford's new novel, THE STAMP OF GLORY. You can order a copy by calling BreakPoint. After you've read it -- and it's a great read -- prayerfully consider how you might become more involved.

Social evils are just as great today as they were a century ago. To fight them, America needs all the foot soldiers she can muster.

79 posted on 11/30/2002 1:25:35 PM PST by Mr. Silverback
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To: Mr. Silverback
I guess you've read the Lincoln/Douglas Debates on Slavery as well. Refer to my post above.
80 posted on 11/30/2002 1:30:41 PM PST by paltz
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