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Why don’t as many men go to church as women?
WDTPRS ^ | 12/4/2013 | Fr. John Zuhlsdorf

Posted on 12/04/2013 2:17:07 PM PST by markomalley

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To: who_would_fardels_bear

I’m not talking about “no pastors”. I’m talking about accountability for those who are. Upgrade not eradication. Right now you’ve got a bunch of Willy Wonkas leading the masses through Happy Jesus Bullcrap Land.


21 posted on 12/04/2013 2:47:15 PM PST by ameribbean expat
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To: Secret Agent Man

Should try attending Messianic Jewish services. No lack of guys there .....


22 posted on 12/04/2013 2:49:00 PM PST by SkyDancer (Live your life in such a way that the Westboro church will want to picket your funeral.)
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To: MNDude

That was both funny and painfully sad!


23 posted on 12/04/2013 2:51:19 PM PST by Mr Rogers (Liberals are like locusts...)
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To: markomalley

I mentally left in the mid-60s when the young priest who taught CCD class on Saturday mornings (yeah, that really appeals to teen boys) started preaching liberation theology with regard to the Mexicans and South Americans and went batshit crazy over U.S. involvement beginning in VN. I drove him nuts with a lot of counter-arguments and he eventually encouraged me to skip class. That was a no-brainer. I physically left when I entered the Marine Corps and could no longer stand the anti-war views of the church and their political stances. Other denominations had little more to offer than they did and I now consider myself a believer, but adenominational. Every denomination has their own “truth” and too many will tell me that I will go to hell for not believing that they do; regardless of how good a life I live.


24 posted on 12/04/2013 2:52:50 PM PST by RJS1950 (The democrats are the "enemies foreign and domestic" cited in the federal oath)
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To: markomalley

Well, my priest is a communist and certainly has issues with white people (this is New Mexico).

The youth leaders may or may not be gay, but the guy who greets us at the door is either gay or flaming wimp, such that he might as well be gay.

All the activities, outside of mass itself, at the church are social do-goodery for projects I don’t agree with and, IMHO, harm society or do nothing.


25 posted on 12/04/2013 2:53:38 PM PST by TheThirdRuffian (RINOS like Romney, McCain, Christie are sure losers. No more!)
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To: markomalley

Great question!

I have a simple and profound explanation.

I chose to stop attending church when, at my nephew’s baptism in the Episcopal church, the (married, female) pastor was quoting Desmond Tutu during the baptism; hitting on me at the reception; and in the activity room, -which I grew up in beginning with Sunday school, I observed the decor to consist of a bunch of b&w pictures of ~rocks~ displayed on the walls.

Feminism, promiscuity and Gaia was waaaaay too much for me at, of all things, my nephew’s baptism!

OUTTA THERE!!

-but that was probably the intent.....


26 posted on 12/04/2013 2:59:58 PM PST by Justa
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To: markomalley

I remember when a church in Phoenix was permitted to offer the Latin mass. The service was SRO, the front rows were full of invalids, some who had been taken out of hospitals and nursing homes by their families so they could one again experience the Latin mass. Some were Catholics who had not gone to church since Vatican II.

They had to bring large fans in because of the oppressive heat. Many of the elderly were in tears at seeing and hearing their faith once again.

Noticeable by their absence were those proponents of trendy modernism, who were trying very hard to ignore what was happening. Afterwards they acted like it had never happened and that it would be “better” if the church again turned to guitars, pastels, and everyone giving each other hugs, while listening to politically correct inanities.


27 posted on 12/04/2013 3:00:20 PM PST by yefragetuwrabrumuy (Last Obamacare Promise: "If You Like Your Eternal Soul, You Can Keep It.")
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To: wardaddy

The reason; because Sunday morning follows Saturday night.


28 posted on 12/04/2013 3:06:55 PM PST by snoringbear (E.oGovernment is the Pimp,)
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To: markomalley

“Church” is primarily for born again believers. The worlds conception of what a man is remains highly distorted. Brutes after the flesh impress fleshy women, not the Lord. He chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.

Etc.


29 posted on 12/04/2013 3:10:42 PM PST by avenir (I'm pessimistic about man, but I'm optimistic about GOD!)
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To: Jeff Chandler

Us Episcopalians are glad to continue to use the music that the Catholics abandoned. I’m in the choir in my parish and I’ve sung Bach, Beethoven, Tallis, Mozart, Bird, Palestrina, etc., etc.


30 posted on 12/04/2013 3:13:01 PM PST by RonF
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To: markomalley

>> Why don’t as many men go to church as women?

Not sure about the history of this issue in YOUR congregation — but if I find out that **EVEN ONE** man is going to MY church as a woman... I’m finding a new church. Pronto.

;-)


31 posted on 12/04/2013 3:14:44 PM PST by Nervous Tick (Without GOD, men get what they deserve.)
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To: RinaseaofDs

Exactly.


32 posted on 12/04/2013 3:14:50 PM PST by Sacajaweau
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To: Nervous Tick
Not sure about the history of this issue in YOUR congregation — but if I find out that **EVEN ONE** man is going to MY church as a woman... I’m finding a new church. Pronto.;-)

LOL.

You'll know to run for the hills if your church changes the "Men" and "Women" signs on the bathrooms to "Whatever".

33 posted on 12/04/2013 3:19:03 PM PST by Col Freeper (FR: A smorgasbord of Conservative Mindfood - dig in and enjoy it!)
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To: Secret Agent Man

I hear you on numbers one and two but the rest sound like leftist divide and conquer talking points.

The challenges that life offers has no real bearing on the road traveled. The human experience is the human experience. There should be no reason that a well educated experienced man can’t help or offer perspective to anyone.

Of course if vapidity and shallowness extend to the intellect there’s no hope for it.


34 posted on 12/04/2013 3:23:16 PM PST by TalBlack (Evil doesn't have a day job.)
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To: Jeff Chandler; markomalley

It is not just the Catholic church, or Protestant churches, it is the culture as a whole. Things have become so overtly feminine orenated, that men have been pushed to the side.


35 posted on 12/04/2013 3:29:40 PM PST by redgolum ("God is dead" -- Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" -- God.)
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To: snoringbear

After a long week at the mines and keeping the spousal unit placated Monday through Saturday, sometimes Sundays are the only days I can have any downtime.


36 posted on 12/04/2013 3:33:57 PM PST by wally_bert (There are no winners in a game of losers. I'm Tommy Joyce, welcome to the Oriental Lounge.)
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To: who_would_fardels_bear

Clicked on the link for the book...speaking of unintended consequences, how about expecting the Germans to pay for St. Peter’s Basilica (via indulgences) and not bitch about it? Anybody see that one coming? That was a pretty big misread.

Come to think of it, Europe is right back where it was 500 years ago...the Krauts got the money and the Italians want it. Except today the establishment hierarchy is composed of bureaucrats and academics, not clergy (who appear content sticking their hands down boys pants). Turns out the same way. Krauts do the heavy lifting and destroy the Establishment assumptions, and God only knows what fills the vacuum (What is the secular equivalent of Joel Osteen?)


37 posted on 12/04/2013 3:39:04 PM PST by ameribbean expat
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To: TalBlack

are you going to take advice about being a dad from a guy who never has been one? But he speaks with total authority and thinks he just knows better than you do?

if you already don’t have much respect for him because the sermons are shallow and not substantial? Don’t think he really knows too well what he’s talking about?

If you think he’s gay? Or you know he leads a life that’s insulated from the lives married people lead?

first hand experience is important in CREDIBILITY of the person offering the advice. It lets the person getting the advice know the person offering the advice really may have dealt with similar things and aren’t just talking out of their hiney.


38 posted on 12/04/2013 3:47:06 PM PST by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: who_would_fardels_bear

There is the doctrine of The Priesthood of All Believers...

It is the foundation of the Via de Cristo and Walk to Emmaus movements.

Stipulates that all believers are called to act as “priests”. Not in the giving communion and absolution sense, but in bringing others to Christ and ministering to them as Christ and the Apostles ministered to people.

It imparts a great sense of responsibility upon one, that Christ is counting on you to be his representative on Earth.


39 posted on 12/04/2013 3:55:31 PM PST by Crusher138 ("Then conquer we must, for our cause it is just")
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To: markomalley
40 responses and nobody mentions Holy Communion? If you take
the Precious Body and Blood out of the discussion of church, then
I can follow this thread. I cannot (nor can Holy Mass) take the
Real Presence out. The carnival aspects of Novus Ordo all
give way when Mysterium Fidei time rolls around. Yes, gritted
teeth throb from what is often endured, but whatever it takes
to receive Him overcomes all banality.
40 posted on 12/04/2013 4:10:36 PM PST by jobim (.)
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