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FRIEND'S ADVICE TO PREGNANT TEEN TAKES A TRAGIC TURN
www.uexpress.com ^ | 10/27/06 | Dear Abby (Abigail Van Buren)

Posted on 10/27/2006 7:33:37 AM PDT by MockTurtle

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To: MockTurtle

some mornings I scan the dear abby column and it's clear the writer isn't that bright.


41 posted on 10/27/2006 7:46:42 AM PDT by flashbunny
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To: DesScorp

How can you say it's easy for the man? You're not a man. How can you know what it's like to be a man? Please do not discount the feelings (normal) men have for the "flesh of their flesh, bone of their bone."


42 posted on 10/27/2006 7:47:16 AM PDT by ichabod1 (Face it, every empire comes to an end, and ours is on the down hill slope.)
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To: Alouette
LOL!
43 posted on 10/27/2006 7:47:31 AM PDT by wideawake ("The nation which forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten." - Calvin Coolidge)
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To: MockTurtle

""parental notification" into law. Fortunately, it was voted down."

Yes, the nazi's voted that the state could take your child, perform surgery on them and all without telling anyone.

Hitler and Mengela did this and so did the California voters.


44 posted on 10/27/2006 7:48:58 AM PDT by edcoil (Reality doesn't say much - doesn't need too)
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To: MockTurtle

Good find.


45 posted on 10/27/2006 7:49:18 AM PDT by beaversmom
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To: isthisnickcool
What you failed to take into consideration was the fact that many teens live in homes where there is violence, abuse, drug problems and incest

This statement is just absurd.

Its not absurd, claiming there are many is not absurd.

Statistically they may be a small percentage of the teen population, but even 1% (Which is a small percentage of the teen population) adds up to MANY individuals. Even .1% would be MANY individuals, even if it is a statistically small percentage. I think the issue here is the parent didn't take the childs warning about her parents harming her seriously, because nearly all teens are meladramatic about their parents "killing them" for this or that. So most folks would never bother to ask a kid, "Do your parents abuse or beat you?" when they hear such a statement, the defacto just assume is the usual teenage drama and angst. Unfortunately there are indeed situations where it isn't, and now this person knows that for this girl they aren't.

Hopefully this "parent" will now face the full brunt of the law and be locked up for a long long time, if not worse.

46 posted on 10/27/2006 7:50:34 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: onef

Dear Abby letter regarding parental notification--see post #21 as well. What a load!


47 posted on 10/27/2006 7:51:09 AM PDT by beaversmom
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To: HamiltonJay

See post #21. This letter is a load of doo doo.


48 posted on 10/27/2006 7:52:22 AM PDT by beaversmom
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To: MockTurtle

The letter never even mentioned abortion and Abby has no idea if it was even considered. The girl may have had to tell her parents because she was bound to start showing her pregnancy eventually. Abby just assumes she wanted an abortion, sick.


49 posted on 10/27/2006 7:54:23 AM PDT by Teflonic
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To: ichabod1
"How can you say it's easy for the man? You're not a man."

That's news to my wife. Wow, thanks for clearing that up. "Honey, guess what...you get to be a dyke now...."
50 posted on 10/27/2006 7:55:16 AM PDT by DesScorp
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To: stopsign

I signed up for a series of massages and they told me that if I was under 18 I had to have my parents' permission.

Abortion, no parental permission.

Massage, must have parental permission.

By the way, even my dog knows this letter is bogus.


51 posted on 10/27/2006 7:55:44 AM PDT by Auntie Mame (Fear not tomorrow. God is already there.)
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To: beaversmom

Did you notice, both letters came in October - before elections?


52 posted on 10/27/2006 7:56:06 AM PDT by MockTurtle
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To: HamiltonJay

I'm kinda amazed from the opposite side.

If I had gotten preggers as a teen,
I'd have been dead.

No joke....that was one of those unforgivables, 'you're damned forever so I'll take you out' sins.

I know girls who got the crapped kicked out of them for getting pregnant.... It was a warning to the rest of us I guess.

With that being said, I think the letter is a hoax.


53 posted on 10/27/2006 7:56:18 AM PDT by najida (The internet is for kids grown up-- Where else could you have 10,000 imaginary friends?)
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To: yldstrk

I think this letter is 100% bogus. A man who would brutally beat his pregnant teenage daughter doesn't do something like that out of nowhere. Brutes like that preside over chaotic, unhappy households and a teenager living in such a household would not be the type of naive girl who would take a friend's middle class mother's advice about approaching her father. A man who would beat his pregnant daughter would have beaten her before she was pregnant, too, and his daughter would be far more likely to run away than to confront her father. This letter is a fraud and either the letter writer or Abby herself is a liar.


54 posted on 10/27/2006 7:58:17 AM PDT by utahagen
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To: MockTurtle

"..we knew better, and finally convinced her that the best thing was to tell her parents, have the baby, and get on with her life"

From what I understand, Planned Parenthood, NEVER convinces them to have the baby.


55 posted on 10/27/2006 8:00:19 AM PDT by SAMS (Nobody loves a soldier until the enemy is at the gate; Army Wife & Marine Mom)
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To: theDentist

Yep! She's dead. I believe there are 2 women doing the column now. Not sure if they are related to her or not. I read that letter also and it smelled to me also. I doubt anyone wrote that letter. It was a scam.


56 posted on 10/27/2006 8:00:41 AM PDT by GrannyK
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To: Risha
I would have no problem with made-up letters to advice columns if they were written to capture peoples' genuine experiences, such as a teen writing in with a broken heart over a failed romance. That's a common experience and the advice would have nothing to do with advancing any political agenda. But to publish fake letters -- and I believe this letter is a fake -- that are used to influence voters is outrageous. Whoever is behind the Dear Abby column, and all the papers that carry it, should be held responsible for publishing this phony letter.
57 posted on 10/27/2006 8:03:17 AM PDT by utahagen
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To: wideawake
The letter, like most of her letters, is fabricated.

That was my instinct as well. Pure fiction.

58 posted on 10/27/2006 8:05:24 AM PDT by TChris (The United Nations is suffering from delusions of relevance.)
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To: yldstrk

A lot of the letters are obviously made-up, cater to left-wing stereotypes of us ignorant hicks in flyover country.


59 posted on 10/27/2006 8:07:10 AM PDT by Freedom4US (u)
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To: SAMS
From what I understand, Planned Parenthood, NEVER convinces them to have the baby.

I've never heard of that either. Just the opposite - they do anything they can to talk young girls and women into the abortion. (Show me the money!)
60 posted on 10/27/2006 8:07:53 AM PDT by MockTurtle
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