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Let’s Stop Idealizing the Home-Cooked Family Dinner
Slate ^ | September 3, 2014 | Amanda Marcotte

Posted on 09/04/2014 1:11:30 PM PDT by EveningStar

The home-cooked meal has long been romanticized, from ’50s-era sitcoms to the work of star food writer Michael Pollan, who once wrote, “far from oppressing them, the work of cooking approached in the proper spirit offered a kind of fulfillment and deserved an intelligent woman’s attention.” In recent years, the home-cooked meal has increasingly been offered up as the solution to our country's burgeoning nutrition-related health problems of heart disease and diabetes. But while home-cooked meals are typically healthier than restaurant food, sociologists Sarah Bowen, Sinikka Elliott, and Joslyn Brenton from North Carolina State University argue that the stress that cooking puts on people, particularly women, may not be worth the trade-off.

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TOPICS: Food; Health/Medicine; Science; Society
KEYWORDS: americaindecline; antiamericanism; areyoubitterdear; communism; crymeariver; feminazi; goodcooking; junkscience; nostalgia; nuclearfamily; smashthepatriarchy
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To: GraceG

oh don’t get me started o welfare food stamps.

I go nuts when I see them , and then they go to their new vehicle or the liquor store next door .
We pay about 300 a week on groceries, we get all store name foods, nothing fancy but we live in our budget which is small, and then I have to pay for their food especially a family which are all obese and not needing food that much obviously


121 posted on 09/04/2014 1:51:32 PM PDT by manc (Marriage =1 man + 1 woman,when they say marriage equality then they should support polygamy)
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To: manc
HUH it’s a damn sight cheaper than eating junk food every night.

Which reminds me that I need to get out and harvest some broccoli for dinner tonight.
122 posted on 09/04/2014 1:51:35 PM PDT by cripplecreek ("Moderates" are lying manipulative bottom feeding scum.)
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To: thackney

Yep.

You can’t buy that stuff.

You just have to be there.


123 posted on 09/04/2014 1:52:29 PM PDT by humblegunner
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To: EveningStar

I (male) am the cook for 4. Yeah, there’s stress ... yet few things are as satisfying as cooking a good meal from scratch. Even when in a rush, it doesn’t take much to throw something together (at worst, keep a few bags of Bertolli meals in the freezer: 10 minutes heating in a skillet and you’ve got something worth slaving over, under $3/person).

Reminds me: my 45 lb bucket of raw wheat hasn’t shown up yet. Taking “from scratch” ever farther is a worthy challenge.

Sorry, people, life is work. You want good health at low cost? you’re gonna have to cook it yourself from raw ingredients.


124 posted on 09/04/2014 1:52:33 PM PDT by ctdonath2 (Solve problems, don't bitch about them.)
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To: EveningStar

Wrong. The trend of parents constantly taking their kids out to eat, or ordering take out or delivery food for dinner, is horrible and immensely damaging. It has nothing to do with the “idealized” 50s family structure that Amanda hates so much. It has everything to do with people making less and less effort to create cohesive social units, whether they are families or neighborhoods or communities. If a mother and father can’t even cook for their kids, its a sad statement.


125 posted on 09/04/2014 1:53:46 PM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard ("When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.")
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To: EveningStar

I suppose it all depends on the cook and the family. My mother-in-law is a terrible cook and a vicious woman who doesn’t feel any sentence is complete if it doesn’t denigrate someone. Home-cooked family meals with her are unhealthy for mind and body.


126 posted on 09/04/2014 1:54:05 PM PDT by discostu (We don't leave the ladies crying cause the story's sad.)
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To: DannyTN

Alright, STOP IT! I am so freaking hungry!!


127 posted on 09/04/2014 1:55:04 PM PDT by SgtHooper (Anyone who remembers the 60's, wasn't there!)
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To: fatnotlazy

Lunch today was Ramen noodles made into food by the addition of pork roast leftovers and fresh veggies.


128 posted on 09/04/2014 1:55:50 PM PDT by cripplecreek ("Moderates" are lying manipulative bottom feeding scum.)
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To: manc

The goal of the left is to actually drive up food prices.
Their mascots on EBT will simply keep getting increases (at your expense also) so that they won’t feel the price increase at all.

“After we win this election, it’s our turn. Payback time. Everyone not with us is against us and they better be ready because we don’t forget. The ones who helped us will be rewarded, the ones who opposed us will get what they deserve. There is going to be hell to pay.”


129 posted on 09/04/2014 1:56:08 PM PDT by MrB (The difference between a Humanist and a Satanist - the latter admits whom he's working for)
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To: EveningStar

Hey slate writer....

P155 OFF!

Well adjusted, healthy children (now adult)and as often as possible there was an evening meal with all hands possible in attendance. Here’s a twist also...if Uncle Sam didn’t have me “out of town” or later the office had me “out of town,” this head of the household did the cooking.....breakfast as often as possible and the same for dinner. The younguns ate cereal as a snack, they got protein and complex carbs for morning meal and real food....meat, carb, vegg, vegg for dinner.

It is only the control freak, nanny state ‘wog’ that thinks there is nothing to be gained from the bonding and camaraderie found at the family table.


130 posted on 09/04/2014 1:58:28 PM PDT by petro45acp (It's a fabian thing.....how do you boil a frog? How's that water feelin right about now?)
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To: GeronL

And it is raining, but I’m still going to light the grill right now for fajitas, and sauté fresh squash and basil from the garden with onion in butter-your barbecue pics made me hungry......


131 posted on 09/04/2014 1:58:34 PM PDT by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up yoiur boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: Texan5

hadn’t rained here for months but in the last few days we had some sprinkles and nice lazy rain


132 posted on 09/04/2014 1:59:11 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: fatnotlazy

I do the same thing, but I have four other mouths to feed.
I’ll make a 25-pound oval-shaped three-inch think brick of lasagna in my turkey pot, cut it into portions, and it’ll keep for months.

NOMS!

(OH! I’m also the only one working. Wife’s a SAHM)


133 posted on 09/04/2014 2:01:10 PM PDT by RandallFlagg (Uninstall Fascist Firefox. Get Pale Moon.)
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To: cripplecreek

Now don’t smoke the broccoli and steam the buds!


134 posted on 09/04/2014 2:01:40 PM PDT by SgtHooper (Anyone who remembers the 60's, wasn't there!)
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To: EveningStar

Again, a communist propaganda organ of the White House attacks another American family value!

To them, I say, CHUCK FOO! (It’s harder to write it in anglicized Russian.)

I COOK!

Yea, sure, I could go out and get something, but my DAD (G-d bless him), taught me how to cook as a kid in my own cast iron pan. (Among things, he was in one of many lifestyles, a short order cook. “My boy ain’t gonna grow up and waste money in no greasy spoon, when he can do it himself!”)

I watched a whole generation become nothing than slaves to the golden arches, the red haired girl, the false faced king, or a ‘hardy’ sandwich, or any chain chicken place (before the days of the cows protesting to eat chicken).

I have my own pans, stainless and iron. I do use a stovetop more, and proved, to myself, that baking is not a niche for me to conquer. I do ‘have some books’, and ‘my pen and ink books’, but once I got ‘the method’ down. I’m ok throwing something together. (And no, I don’t burn water, either!)

Lastly, cooks, whether home or business, just might a hidden geek, whether it is gadgetry, cutlery - European or Asian, or machinery.

Me? I can say that a dollar paid for a kitchen knife had better be of value, and worthiness. I own both European and Asian designs. No ‘gyutos’, or ‘pettys’, yet. Too many dollars, for right now.

In all, home cooking can bring a sense of accomplishment, that getting in a car or bus to go to a restaurant, just does not bring. Mind you, it was a Korean G.I. wife home cook, that in a food show competition, won her place as chef in one of the many casino restaurants in Las Vegas, last year! (Her secret was that she learned English, and American cooking, watching that cable food thing!)


135 posted on 09/04/2014 2:02:14 PM PDT by Terry L Smith
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To: EveningStar

The bottom-scraping scenarios the author presents are consequence of an unwillingness to SOLVE THE PROBLEMS and DO THE WORK. Utensils & cookware? cheap from Goodwill et al. Dirty living conditions? _clean_up_. Erratic work schedules? toss ingredients in a slow cooker, easy to prep and ready anytime. Fresh produce unavailable (costly or absent)? frozen is just as good _and_ lasts longer.

Turn the G-D TV off and put everyone to work. Get dressed before 7AM (much less NOON) and get productive. People lived much better on far less because they _worked_at_it_.


136 posted on 09/04/2014 2:03:36 PM PDT by ctdonath2 (Solve problems, don't bitch about them.)
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To: johniegrad

Hahahaha!

I went to post this to Facebook for discussion and the auto complete function CHANGED THE TITLE TO....

The Tyranny of the Home Cooked Meal.... go ahead Slate. Tell us how you really feel!


137 posted on 09/04/2014 2:04:34 PM PDT by EBH (And the angel poured out his cup...)
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To: cripplecreek

Lucky you are-this late in the summer, okra grows, cherry tomatoes and some zucchini that is in the shade-but it has to be picked small...


138 posted on 09/04/2014 2:05:37 PM PDT by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up yoiur boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: EveningStar
......the stress that cooking puts on people, particularly women, may not be worth the trade-off.

Stress, what stress? Cooking is a stress RELIEVER for me. It's a hobby, like crochet or cross stitch.

139 posted on 09/04/2014 2:05:50 PM PDT by Gabz (Democrats for Voldemort.)
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To: formosa

At least once a week I have my 4 & 6 year olds make dinner. I just stand there and tell ‘em what to do, they have a blast making it.


140 posted on 09/04/2014 2:06:14 PM PDT by ctdonath2 (Solve problems, don't bitch about them.)
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