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Ruling on area man's quest to stop child support sets a new tone
TimesLeader.com ^ | April 1, 2003

Posted on 04/01/2003 7:00:33 PM PST by Sweet_Sunflower29

The baby boy was born in 1990, and for four years William and Pamela Doran raised him as their own. When the couple divorced in 1995, William Doran continued to support the boy financially and emotionally. But a year later, Doran, of Avoca, got a visit from a man who would leave him with a nagging suspicion.

Doran's wife had an affair while they were married, he learned, and there was a chance the boy he had called "son" was not his son after all.

When a DNA test confirmed that suspicion in 2001, Doran launched a legal battle to discontinue child-support payments. On Friday the state Superior Court ruled in his favor - a decision several local attorneys said will have statewide impact.

The attorneys said the ruling is significant because it moves away from a longstanding standard within the court system that has made it difficult for men to challenge paternity if the child was conceived during marriage.

Pennsylvania courts have long held that a man who holds himself out to be the father of a child can be held financially responsible for the child, even if it is later proved the child is not biologically his. This "presumption of paternity" is meant to protect the child by preserving the family structure.

But advocates of fathers rights have questioned the fairness of the law in cases in which a mother has intentionally deceived a man into believing a child is his.

"It's a huge ruling," said Karen Menone, secretary of the local chapter of Fathers' and Children's Equality, an advocacy group for fathers. "When a woman commits fraud and lies about the paternity of a child, it has devastating consequences. ... Courts have to stop rewarding women for bad behavior."

In Doran's case, court papers say Pamela Doran, now Pamela Smigiel, admitted she was having sexual relations with another man during her marriage to Doran. Doran first questioned if he was the child's father in 1996, and Smigiel assured Doran he was. The truth was not revealed until 2001, when Doran, suspicious that the child's appearance did not match his, convinced Smigiel to allow a DNA test.

Smigiel's attorney, Gregory Skibitsky, had argued that a legal principle known as "estoppel" precluded Doran from challenging paternity because he had acted as the child's father for years, even after his initial suspicions about paternity were aroused.

But Luzerne County Court of Common Pleas Judge Chester Muroski rejected that argument, saying Doran's case was different because of the misrepresentations of his wife.

"Had she been forthright to her spouse and explained what she had done at the time of the child's conception, her husband may certainly have acted differently," Muroski wrote. "Unfortunately, her deceit, falsehoods and misrepresentations gave Mr. Doran no reason but to treat the child as his own."

Skibitsky appealed to the Superior Court, arguing Muroski misapplied the law. But the court sided with the judge, citing prior appellate court rulings that have said fraud can be considered when determining whether a father has the right to challenge paternity.

"Review of the record leads us to find that Doran would not have held the child out as his own had it not been for Smigiel's fraudulent conduct," the court wrote.

Doran had also sought reimbursement for the child support he paid over six years, but Muroski denied that request. That issue was not addressed in the Superior Court ruling. Doran has a separate civil suit pending on that issue in Luzerne County court.

Michael Pendolphi, a Forty Fort attorney who specializes in family law, said the decision, while significant, will impact only a small number of cases since it relates only to instances where deceit is alleged, which is rare.

Pendolphi has represented men and women in support issues, and said he supports the court's decision.

"It makes (the system) more equitable. A woman should not receive support from a man who is not the biological father based on her lies to him," he said.

But attorney Arthur Silverblatt, another family-law specialist, said he believes the ruling will hurt children.

"The presumption of paternity doctrine ... was created to prevent innocent children from bearing the stigma of illegitimacy," Silverblatt said. "What this does is open the door for the destruction of that doctrine."

Silverblatt said he understands the concerns raised by fathers rights advocates, but he believes the court's first and foremost responsibility is to the child.

"It's a difficult case, no question about it. One sympathy certainly could be with the father. But if we have to adjudicate where sympathy lies, it should lie with the child, not the parents."


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1 posted on 04/01/2003 7:00:34 PM PST by Sweet_Sunflower29
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
Bump for Great Justice!
2 posted on 04/01/2003 7:03:22 PM PST by LibKill (MOAB, the greatest advance in Foreign Relations since the cat-o'-nine-tails!)
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
"The presumption of paternity doctrine ... was created to prevent innocent children from bearing the stigma of illegitimacy," Silverblatt said. "What this does is open the door for the destruction of that doctrine."


I disagree, IMO it opens the door for responsible parenting and the legal and moral objective of not rewarding fraud.
3 posted on 04/01/2003 7:06:06 PM PST by rolling_stone
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To: Lorianne
ping
4 posted on 04/01/2003 7:06:44 PM PST by SauronOfMordor (Heavily armed, easily bored, and off my medication)
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
This is so difficult. Doran was cheated royally, but now the boy is abandoned by the man he called "Daddy". The mother is to blame, but it's a no win situation. Doran won't have to pay child support which is fair, but he and the boy were cheated.
5 posted on 04/01/2003 7:07:34 PM PST by xJones
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
From a person that was screwed. by the courts in a< paternity case, this is greeeeeaaat news.

Too late for me, but great news all the same.

6 posted on 04/01/2003 7:14:31 PM PST by OneVike
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To: xJones
Sometimes women can be real bitch's!
8 posted on 04/01/2003 7:15:40 PM PST by OneVike
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
They mispelled Smeagol
9 posted on 04/01/2003 7:16:07 PM PST by Bogey78O (check it out... http://freepers.zill.net/users/bogey78o_fr/puppet.swf)
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To: xJones
The only person done dirty is the child. I feel sorry for a child who has been abandoned.
10 posted on 04/01/2003 7:16:47 PM PST by cyborg
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
If I found out my son was actually someone elses it wouldn't change a thing in the relationship or in my level of support. I've never understood these stories.
11 posted on 04/01/2003 7:20:39 PM PST by Arkinsaw
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
"Stigma of Illegitamacy"? Bull cr*p! That went out the window with the present welfare system.
12 posted on 04/01/2003 7:22:18 PM PST by nomad
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
"It's a difficult case, no question about it. One sympathy certainly could be with the father. But if we have to adjudicate where sympathy lies, it should lie with the child, not the parents." What a load of bullsh_t!!!! I have no patience with deadbeat Dads but to pin a kid on someone who was not responsible for it is a case of two wrongs not making a right. What they should be doing is forcing the woman to fess up to who she was hosebagging around with and get him to pay for it.
13 posted on 04/01/2003 7:27:04 PM PST by misterrob
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
Silverblatt said he understands the concerns raised by fathers rights advocates, but he believes the court's first and foremost responsibility is to the child.

That's a tearjerking crock designed to allow con artists to use children as human shields. That's been going on long enough. It's about time the courts re-visited this issue.

Let's have this woman introduce the kid to the real father, who can now start paying the child support. She can also explain to the kid that she hid his real father from him and lied to him all these years because she cared only about herself, and she treated both the child and the former husband as fools to be lied to for her convenience.

14 posted on 04/01/2003 7:27:08 PM PST by Nick Danger (More rallys planned! www.freerepublic.net)
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To: cyborg

The only person done dirty is the child

Excuse Me!!

I feel sorry for the child and the man. Imagine finding out that a child you love is not yours. You still love that child, however if you get married again, should your new wife also pay financially for the BITC#@$ deciet?

When the courts rule that a man must pay or you go to jail, and the same judge says he will not enforce visitation rights, when the c@%& moves to another state with the very pr*%@ that impregnated her. I'm sorry the but the man who believed in his vows is the one that gets screwed.

When that child turns 18 and she wants nothing to do with the man paying for her upbringing, but never could afford to visit her for the very reason he paid out the F#^*&^! as%#* for said child.

No, I personally feel for the man.

15 posted on 04/01/2003 7:30:27 PM PST by OneVike
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To: LibKill
It may be Justice on the father's side but I can't help but feel horribly for the poor child.. can you imagine the person you thought was your father and thought loved you unconditionally decides, "oh wait, I changed my mind." A father is more than just a sperm donor. This story tears me in two directions because I can see his side of it but I still can't see hurting a child that you thought was yours so long and developed a love for like your own as badly as this must hurt this boy. I think a real man would've continued to be the father every child needs. Maybe it's just the mother in me talking.
16 posted on 04/01/2003 7:33:28 PM PST by honeygrl
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To: rolling_stone
This is a big step in the right direction...for once. If you REALLY want to see a reversal of the destruction of the family, the corner stone of society, then there has to be consequences for fraud...and those consequences have to go to the party who commits it. And as far as the kids losing, they have been losing anyway by being used as tools for fraud-based extortion.
17 posted on 04/01/2003 7:33:59 PM PST by Orangedog (Soccer-Moms are the biggest threat to your freedoms and the republic !)
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To: Arkinsaw
"If I found out my son was actually someone elses it wouldn't change a thing in the relationship or in my level of support. I've never understood these stories. "

See, YOU are a real man! We need more like you in this country.
18 posted on 04/01/2003 7:35:10 PM PST by honeygrl
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To: Sweet_Sunflower29
After reading so many of these stories (and know a few men this has happened to), I have come to the conclusion that a DNA test should be done on the child and supposed parents when the baby is born to eliminate all this crap then and there!

If the DNA doesn't fit, you must aquit!

19 posted on 04/01/2003 7:36:20 PM PST by BossLady
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To: misterrob
Do you have children? Do you consider them pinned to you? If so, I feel sorry for them.
20 posted on 04/01/2003 7:36:35 PM PST by honeygrl
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